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Fiance's ex telling me things, continued?

I'm on my iPhone and can't seem to add more details to my last question so here are some additional details.

I did ask him to change his number and he said no because he has had it for a long time. I also asked him to delete her number and he said no because he wants to know when she is calling so he can ignore her calls. Btw he has spoke to her in front of me and it was not pretty. He was yelling at her and calling her a liar. Today she told me that he sent her 2 songs and they just happened to be the songs that he has been listening to for the last few days. They are kind of mean, leave me alone because you hurt me songs. Also her and I have an agreement that she will let me know when he is contacting her and she has followed through so far. I've been paying attention to see if he was home or not when she says he contacted her and it turns out that I was either asleep or he was gone. Last night he had tried to send her a message but I walked up on him before he could complete it and later when I saw it on his phone I asked him about it and he denied it. The message was "gue" that's all that he got out. Today she also said that she was getting a message from a blocked number saying "I dream of you" but at the time he had been sleeping on the couch for 3 hours. She could be the first one contacting him instead because he's so afraid that I'll get mad he decides not to tell me. Also today I asked her not to respond to his texts and see what happens and she said that she would rather not ignore him because he'll call her over and over. It seems that she wants to continue talking to him.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    He is not over her. She may or may not be over him. You have problem: Do you really want to marry a man who still has a ex floating around in his head ALL THE Time? Can you share your man with this other person? Because that is what is happening, Emotionally, maybe not physically.

  • 5 years ago

    This woman had a life of her own at the same time as she and your "fiance" were married with a daughter. If the 16 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous stepdaughter's mom needs to journey her to college, next time, have the female waiting to omit of the door at the same time as mom pulls the motor vehicle into sight so she will have the capacity to no longer ought to come contained in the residing house. in the journey that your "fiance" remains taking up for her with excuses and does no longer choose to dissatisfied her by inviting her into your position, he must have stayed in his marriage inclusive of her. might want to your 7 month previous son be a good clarification on your fiance leaving his spouse? evaluate this difficulty in the previous both months is over.

  • 1 decade ago

    My advice: contact her and ask to come over to her house to see the texts. If he is really texting her inappropriate things, then she should be able to show you them coming from his number (make sure it's from his number as you can name any contact number whatever you want). You'll find out the truth for better or worse, if she acts fishy like she doesn't want you to come over then you know she's lying. If you go and she shows you and there's no doubt then you know what you have to do. I hope he isn't lying to you, good luck.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    ohhhhh hunni.....sit and talk to him, explain your feeling hurt to whats going on with his ex

    he does nto want to delete her number because he wants to know when she is calling? he does not want to get rid of his own number because he has had it for a long time?

    if he really cared about you then he would do this and think of your feelings and also get rid of his ex out of his life i mean why would he still want his ex in his life, its not making sense

    she sounds just as bad and i bet she has told him about you asking his ex to tell you when he sends her messages

    i think in some ways that you need to move on, tell him you cant cope with it anymore because there is also no trust and i cant blame you for that

    if you tell him its over and he agrees ect it just shows you will be making the right move hun

    you can ad me as contact if you want

    i really hope it goes ok and dont let him make a fool of you hun

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    BE STRAIGHT UP ABOUT IT!

    OI U TEXTN UR EX? SHES ELLING ME ALL THIS **** ND I GETS ME WORRIED ID RATHER NO THE TRUTH SO FUKN TELL ME OR IM GOING TO LEAVE YA DIG!

  • bill g
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    you need to walk him to the kerb --- you are wasting your life on people that life is not worth wasting on --- if you get my drift --- good luck

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