Is this going to count as an eviction and if so, what does that mean for me?

So I had an apartment in Colorado and my boyfriend (who isn't on the lease) has been paying the rent since October because I lost my job and hadn't been able to get one.

We always had to make payment arrangements with the landlord because frankly his checks were only ever (barely) enough to cover the rent, and NOTHING left for anything else - like saving for next month's rent.

This means that rent went up at least 100dollars every month because of the late fees.

Anyway, I had to fly back out to my mom's in Maryland on January 31st because I'm pregnant and my aunt and uncle (who are adopting) live in MD, and I had to fly out before 36 weeks.

So I thought I would fly out, pop the kid sometime around my due date of March 11, recover a bit, and fly back.

Wrong.

I have to stay out here 6weeks after delivery because of the post partum checkup, and February's rent was so tough on my boyfriend that we decided near the end of Feb. that he would start moving things out of the apartment and be out before March's rent was due.

Well March 1st came along and he still had to move stuff out, and then on the 4th the landlady issued the standard 3 day notice paper.. On the 6th or 7th she called me and left a message saying that if she didn't get a payment arrangement from me by the next day she would have to call the attorneys and get it filed.

So I discussed game plans with my boyfriend and I called her the next day but she wasn't there, so I called her yesterday and again she wasn't there but I talked to her assistant anyway and told her what was going on.

This is what I said: That my boyfriend has been helping me out with rent but he can't do it anymore, especially since I won't even be able to be back until around May (which is when my lease is up) and that I mailed him my keys and he's moving stuff out and should only need a few more days.

She said okay and told me what the fees for breaking the lease and breaking it without a 60 day notice were..... And I told her that I knew the 3 day notice had been posted, did that mean I was counted as evicted now and would that be better off? And she got all pissy with me "Oh well hon it might have to the courts by now and you really don't want an eviction on your record, you should have called sooner."

Of course I apologized and all but she still had a tone with me...

Anyway... It's 500 for breaking the lease and 500 for not giving a 60 day notice. That equals a thousand dollars, and possibly more fees.

I know the 3 day paper says attorney fees are about 200....does that mean if it goes through eviction, you just pay the attorney fees? Or is it the attorney fees PLUS the lease break fees?

And if it turns out that it has gone to courts and I am counted as evicted: what does that mean for me?

I cannot appear in a court, because I can't fly at 39 almost 40 weeks, and I cannot pay anywhere near that kind of money.

I still don't have a job, and my boyfriend's job gives him MAYBE 300 every 2 weeks but it depends on the amount of hours (hours that have been dwindling lately..)

So yeah, there is no way we can pay the thousand dollars.... Even just the $200 attorney fees would be difficult because he still has car gas to pay for, plus he has to pay people to watch our cats because his aunt won't allow them in the house, and he has to help her out with groceries and bills because he stays there with her....So for him to have been paying my rent for the last 6months and then have to pay these fees is really unfair...And the reason he's moving me out early is because we can't afford a place I'm not even staying in.

So basically, what can I do? And what does this count as, eviction or no? If it is, what does that mean for me?

Can I do anything to rectify this situation?

I cannot pay these fees if they actually show up, and I cannot be in more debt than I already am, either.

Help much appreciated.