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How does a gay relationship even work?

Like who decides who is dominant, who drives, do both parties work a 9 to 5, who gets butt slammed?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    The same way straight relationships work.

    Clearly, you don't have much experience in relationships, but those issues you just brought up are not clearly set by gender anymore. Who is dominant? That gets negotiated in every relationship, and usually many times. Who drives? Who is the better driver? Who works? Well, in most modern relationships, both parties work. The economic realities of today require it...

    Again, maybe after you have some actual experience with real life relationships, you'll see how silly this question is.

  • One
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Take the word gay out of the question and it may better help answer your own question. How does a relationship work? By both parties loving, respecting, understanding, and not giving up on one another, among other things. So, as far as who's dominant, who drives, who works, and who gets butt slammed, the same as my answer in the previous sentence, both parties should make the decision on this equally.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Mine has for like 27 years. He drives, which is fine by me, I cook and the world is a much better place, we've had some off shift work schedules and the rest of the stuff we share.

  • Snail
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    There's dominance in relationships? Probably whoever feels like the dominant one, I guess. O_o

    Who drives? Probably who ever feels like driving

    The answer to all the questions is probably "Whoever feels like it." just like in a straight relationship, silly.

    xoxo

    Elsa

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I love this...posted by a tween? :)

    So much info to report on this touchy gay relationship subject, you will need a PhD in Psychology and a new prescrip for anti anxiety happy pills....then you'd be ready to start your student-ship in gay Relationship workshop 101.

    Ha ha, I loved your question on "who gets their butt slammed?" LMAO!!!! You made my day, kiddo!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    well its just like normal relationships where the personality of the person decides if there dominant and usually they both do anal

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    flips coin and calls tails...

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