Ladies and gents what to say tomorrow, need a bit of advice?

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There is a guy I met a year ago in my office building (its a high rise building with various businesses).

Signs:
1. He asked me for my number on the first day he met me (walking down the hall)
2. A couple of months ago (4 months ago exactly) we went out to dinner and to coffee (he paid).
3. He has given me gifts just because (nice gifts)
4. Constantly calls and text me (cute and flirty things but always a gentlemen)
5. He texted me that he was going to be in the building tomorrow and wanted to drop by and say hello.
6.  I was out  2 weeks ago and my co-workers informed me he stop by my office asking for me.

Confusion is here:

1. He always asks me for hugs (but we have never held hands nor ever kissed).
2. Always complimenting me (clothes, appearance, beauty, etc)
3. Text me sometimes late at nite just to say hello and wanting to know what I am doing. Texts me in the morning just to say good morning.

I just don't understand why this guy won't just tell me how he feels about me or if he is interested or not.  I don't want to seem aggressive or inappropriate as a girl but in a respectable and or tasteful manner what do I say or do with a guy like this?

I am confused.

? · Accepted Answer

Sweetie, that's entirely up to you.  He's saying he's interested.  Whatever you actually feel should dictate your response.  Be fair to yourself and ask, "What do I want?"  Be fair to him and ask him what he developing between the two of you.
His interests in you are constrained by his moral perspective.  That includes honoring you.  Thank him for that and see how he responds.
Good Luck

Anonymous · Answer

I think he has made it extremely obvious that he likes you, and from what you say here he has done all of the things a person does to express interest. What your wondering is why it hasn't gotten physical I think. Take the lead on this a little it and suggest a proper date; a romantic dinner at your place, or see a movie and go for a walk. Some kind of set up where a little smooching is likely, and appropriate. Or even just go out and ask him to drive; when he drops you off at home kiss him on the mouth when you say good bye. Maybe he is looking for a signal from you that you are open to romance, so give HIM one. He HAS expressed his interest.

Sharon makes a good point though, he may be interested you and may also be married! Other people in the office building might know!

Sharon · Answer

Since I have been around the block a few times, I would be leary, I would be wondering why all the texting especially late at night, why not a phone call? I would be thinking there is another lady involved here. He could be married.

oldtrash06 · Answer

Gosh, he's told you in at least 9 different ways he's interested.  He's not the type to just come out and tell you "I like you" but really, after all that, he shouldn't have to.  The ball is in your court....ask him if he'd like to have lunch with you tomorrow, or anything comfortable for both of you without a commitment.  Then after that it seems to me you'll know where you stand...good luck.

laroche · Answer

i grew to alter into dared 2 cases to bypass top right into a gents bathing room, I went in and everybody grew to alter into like staring awkwardly at me. and that i grew to alter into in actuality attempting to regulate my snigger xP . And when I went in by using mistake :/

Spongecakes · Answer

He sounds a tad weird. But into you none-the-less!

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