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What am I supposed to do? Can't go but can't stay... Must go, but can't. Running out of time? Help?

Okay this may be long, but I need some desperate help.

I had to leave my apartment and my boyfriend and my cats January 31st to come back to my home state to have my baby, due in March.

My mother and I both thought I'd have the kid and return home so I've got a plane ticket for March 28th.

Now this is not the case... first of all, I have to have the 6 week postpartum checkup out here (and I have the appointment scheduled for April 18th...also my birthday).

So we could just switch the plane ticket to some day after that, right?

Wrong.

The apartment got too expensive and my boyfriend moved it out and went back to live with his aunt. Now that he's not using his entire paychecks for rent, he can save some for a new apartment.

Okay, but this may take awhile as the more we have saved the better.

So currently I have no place to live back there, and we don't know what to do.

Personally, I NEED to be out there around May 18th... see, May 18th is when I left home to go out there last year and I'd like to be out there in the same time again... Also, May 22nd is our 2 year anniversary and since I wasn't able to be with him for our 1 year, I would really like us to be together for this one :/

Problem is: I have no place to stay.

I tried to get my old job back here, so that way I could be making some money to help with the apartment but they're not hiring.

So what am I supposed to do? I need to be out there finding a job and working so we can get more money saved up..... but at the same time I need to be here where I have a place to stay.

So what the hell do I do?

I really need to be with him by May... Like seriously..

But what do I do?

Help please.

Update:

Oh why didn't I think about that before?!?! Stay at his aunts WOW what a great idea!*

-_-

No, I can't stay there. I'd just go back now if I could but I can't so that's why the dilemma... and I have no friends out there :/

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Would your boyfriend's aunt let you stay there with him temporarily? Then you can look for work out there, and be able to be with him for your anniversary. Or at least stay at a friend's house?

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