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What should I do about this guy?

I saw this guy at his place of employment, which is a store. I thought he was cute and whenever I see him I can't stop smiling and I get butterflies. A few months ago I added him on facebook and tried starting a conversation with him, but it didn't work. A few days ago I decided to try and talk to him again. He never responded, but he hasn't deleted me on facebook yet. I still really like him and I can't stop thinking about him. Should I try and send him a message again. Should I try and talk to him in person. Or should I just give up on him?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    From what I read, you sound a little nervous. Try going up to him and talk to him in person. Don't let the shy part of you take over. Everyone deserves a shot at love. Just be yourself. Talk to him. Who knows? You guys might actually pull something off.

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    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    If you are going to try for a third time to make contact or get this guy's attention, it's waaaay too much effort, and, it's kind of stalker-y. I hate to point this out, but guys only like attention from girls that they are interested in. It's possible he has a gf, and if he contacts you or whatever they call it on Fb, his gf will know. Don't make yourself too available by contacting a guy that much. Next time, just a smile or wave hi to someone. Let men chase you, not the other way around. Otherwise then, men will just be taking what you offer. Go smile at some guys at the coffee house, just for fun. It's a huge ego boost, and at least you'd get more conversation/ attention out of them, than this guy.

    Men "exercise their options" ALL THE TIME. Women can and should and have MORE opportunity to do so, but they dont. Start a trend; go flirt your *** off! Just not with this guy ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    Always go up to the guy and talk to him BEFORE you request a friendship on facebook. He may think your a creeper :( so not good and people add friends to their list on facebook just because they want as many friends online as possible so that's why he hasn't deleted you yet and STOP sending him messages grow a pair and talk to the guy KK. Oh and don't tell him that your friends on facebook with him!! That's a big no no... Just play it off cool and never mention that your his friend on facebook til he notices and says something

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you dont want to look desperate but if you really like him, try talking to him in person where he works. Maybe he doesn't really go on facebook often. If he doesnt show any interest when you talk to him in person, then it's time to move on

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  • 1 decade ago

    I wouldn't contact him a 3rd time becaue in my opinion it almost seems too desparate. If you happen to see him in person you can smile and see if he talks or not and get a vibe off that, but otherwsie let him respond to you or approach you. He may have a girlfriend or may not be interested, who knows. Good luck, sweetie!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    do not give up on him. u do not know him enough to do that. you should try to talk to him in person. it shows that you are interested in him not a conversation.

  • Josh
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    wait just a little bit, then try to just casually talk to him in person. Dont tell him how you feel just quite yet.

  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to him in person.

  • 1 decade ago

    talk to him in person and if he doesn't seem interested then its time to move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    just talk to him in person and then depending on how he responds determine what to do next. good luck. answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqRJN...

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