Im 36 weeks pregnant and have been babysitting my bf's obnoxious 3 yr old. Help!?

ye you are being selfish actually, to say this kid has nothing to do with you is wrong in the first place because your forgetting him and you baby will be blood related and have a right to see each other, its not fair to push this kid away who obviously hasnt been raised in the right way by his mother or whoever his main guardian is, whos to say that his behaviour cant change with some much needed guidance and discipline. your boyfriends child is your responsibility to some degree when he is in your care so you should be working towards bringing him in closer to the family instead of cutting him out.you knew he had a child when you got with him. you cant expect him to stay away from his son just because it suits you. you should be ashamed of yourself for trying to break up father from son. how would you feel if in three years time you were in the same situation only it was your child who was getting pushed away because your ex and his GF wanted to start their 'new family' like i said, at age 3 kids act a certain way because of the way they are brought up so yes he may be an annoying little brat but i would be more inclined to take that up with the mother than holding a personall grudge against a 3 yr old child! tut tut woman.

The word hate is a little harsh but I see your point. Talk to ur bf & explain what u just said. I have a 2 month old baby so I remember how I felt when I was at that point in my pregnancy. Have u tried to discipline the boy? Good luck.... I don't blame u for not wanting him there now.

You sound like such a sweet heart. What a lucky baby.

You need to look at it like this. One day your "bf" ( gag me ) might leave you and shack up with someone else. When your baby goes to visit he/she might have a witch of a 'step" whatever who calls him/her an annoy little rug rat too.

I wonder if you have the guts to show your 'bf' this little post/rant about his child. I wonder what he'd say?