i need to stop this ridiculous fantasy wat can i do to forget this nonsense?

Go find yourself a man.

i used to have a crash on this woman who had a boyfriend and absolutely no interest in me as far as i knew ,but i still thought about her every day and night, which really drove me crazy.and i started to look for ways to get her out of my mind like what you are doing right now, one way is to find as many flaws about her as possible, but it didn't work.. but lucky me, when i fell for her, it was the last year of junior hig, and afterwards we went to different school for senior hig. so as time went by, i slowly forgot about her. now, i am completely over her.

so i would say, the best way to get him out of your mind is just to stay as far away from him as possible. and find other things to do to take him off your mind. it's gonna be difficult at start.but after a period of time ,when you get used to the world without him, you are gonna feel a lot better.

Find yourself a SINGLE man ;)