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My boyfriend used to have a porn addiction and now he says its not something he practices anymore.?
My question..do all men look at porn and fantacize about other women and does that mean they are not really attracted to you or they dont love you? What can I do to help him?
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- ?Lv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Most men and women look at porn. People do not consider it cheating because it is looking at pictures or videos and is not doing anything with anyone, just looking and not even at anyone they could ever know in real life. It means that they are sexually healthy so long as it does not keep them from their job, relationships, or other more important things in life. It has nothing to do with the person they are involved with. Actuallt most people in relationships look at porn more often than people not in relationships because they are more sexually active. It has nothing to do with the perosn they are with and does not reflect on how attractive they think their partner is because it doesn't relate to their partner at all. Many women are very insecure about their bodies but should not worry about porn--their partners would not be with them if they were not at all sexually attracted to them. Men and many women do not relate sex to love, the two are not the same thing at all; therefor porn has nothing to do with how much they do or do not love their partner. If your boyfriend is actually addicted to porn the only thing you can do is urge them to seek therapy. Like all addictions it is not usually effective to try and get over it alone. They have to confront the reason they have the addiction and work through it in talk therapy. Good luck.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
its not an addiction its a sick industry that is highly organized and forced on the BEST OF US.. how would i know if all men look at porn? this is ridiculous... im about tired of the dumb word love... most men hate porno even when they are looking at it because they say hey they got sisters moms daughters too .. they wouldnt appreciate anyone on earth being in porn... the others havent been enlightened but shouldnt need to be this why ALL CAMERAS SHOULD FEAR GOD.. we say men are pigs some times this is true... but i see men get sucked into porno in emails in their computer accounts and they dont ask to get sucked in.. i see helpless people be forced to buy porno magazines when i know they wouldnt never buy them they have more respect for life than that ... like sick sick sick biker magazines .. they dont sell only one magazine they sell thousands millions maybe .. how can you help him just keep trying to stay ahead of it and clean it up but its not that easy to do....... its like how dare anyone on earth use people for sex...not all men are pigs.... discern ....
- 1 decade ago
I can assure you that if he no longer has an addiction to porn he has an addiction to something else. When men watch porn it didn't mean they don't love their woman it simply means that they might be exploring their sexuality.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
men are pigs.... lol