6 months ago i miscarried now im pregnant again... im terrified...?

I miscarried my first pregnancy in October of 2009 at 7 weeks as well. I found out in October of 2010, 1 year and 5 days after miscarrying, that I was pregnant again. I was terrified. I had some complications in the beginning and even after seeing the baby and her heartbeat at 7w3d I was still worried that something was going to go wrong. Because I was so worried, my husband and I waited to tell anyone we were pregnant. We heard the baby's heart beat at our 12 week appointment but I was still so worried that we waited until after our 16 week appointment to tell anyone. Even though I started feeling the baby move daily at 16-17 weeks I didn't stop worrying until 18 weeks when we had a private gender scan and got a really good look at our baby girl. Honestly, it's really hard to stop worrying after you've been through a miscarriage. You just have to take it day by day. Congrats and good luck to you!

I miscarried in february 2010 at 7-8 weeks and then got pregnant again 2 months later. I didn't worry too awful much the second time around bcuz I really thought it was going to turn out just fine, I even got an ultrasound and got to hear the heartbeat at 10 weeks. Altho we still opted to not tell anyone until I was at least 13 weeks. My Dr said once you hear a good heartbeat at 10 weeks then your odds of miscarrying go way down. Well....that wasn't the case for me bcuz 2 weeks later I found out that I lost this one at 10 1/2 weeks. (sorry, don't mean to scare you) So needless to say we were quite devastated with having to going thru this all again. But I just kept telling myself that everything happens for a reason and when it's the right time it'll happen. I know it's easier said than done but you can't go thru each pregnancy stressing out about whether something bad is going to happen bcuz stress isn't good for baby. We unexpectedly got pregnant again 3 months after the 2nd loss and I'm now 26 weeks and doing great. Your odds of miscarrying a 2nd time are pretty low so I wouldn't worry too much about it! Good luck and congrats!

I have miscarried at 4 weeks before but have not been pregnant since (except I think I am now.) But I can only imagine how you feel. I have not experienced this but I just want to tell you not to stress too much. I think that the risk of miscarrying increases if you have two or more miscarriages in a row which you haven't had. Don't worry about it. I am sure once you are 8 weeks you will feel a bit better knowing that you got past the time that it happened last time. Relax and try not to think about that now. Good luck and blessings to you! :)

Helli dear. I actually know EXACTLY how you feel. I had a missed miscarriage in mid october of last year at sixtenn weeks. The good news? I am currently 18 weeks pregnant. I drive myself crazy thinking that will something will happen just because of what happened in my first pregnancy. But please let me tell you that is not true at all. Just because we've both suffered a miscarriage most certainly does not mean it will happen again. And if you previously miscarried at 7 weeks and are now 7 weeks...then take a little sigh of relief. Its a bit reassuring when you pass the point of which you previously miscarried. If you have any questions or just need soneone to talk to don't be afraid to email me. Good luck sweetie.

its normal to feel like that i did after i had my miscarriage and found out i was pregnant it was two years later but once the 12 weeks are up and your over the first trimester and you have seen the baby you will feel better. wishing you all the best good luck xx

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