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What do you think of those people who say cheating while you're only dating...?
...does not count or that it is not that disrespectful? Those people (both men and women) who say they will only be faithful once they are married.
Would you keep your marriage if you discovered that while only dating your spouse cheated on you?
Would you accept the excuse that she / he only cheated on you because it was not a serious commitment like marriage?
Well, I would divorce right away if I discovered my husband cheated on me when we were only dating. Even if I had absolute certainty that he stopped when we got married.
Come on guys, do these people think we only get hurt when we are married or is it because they think that because you were ONLY a boyfriend/girlfriend you did not deserve their respect.
To me this is just another immature excuse from people who know what they did was wrong but try to rationalize the behavior. What do you think?
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Heloise, the relationship doesn't start with the commitment of marriage. If your proposed partner is rationalizing their behavior before the altar, it is likely they will be rationalizing it after.
Having a real relationship doesn't mean squeezing every advantage you can out of it. At what point does a person like this ever have an honest relationship, not only with someone else, but with themselves?
The irony of a situation like this: Not only is person cheating on another, they are cheating themselves out of having a real and meaningful relationship with their partner. An intimate adult relationship isn't a court of law, with sides to be argued. It is much more profound than that, if you choose it to be.
Source(s): http://infidelitysurvivor.com/ - zenbonzakuraLv 41 decade ago
if someone have a thinking like that and it is not congruent with yours then you shouldn't be with them. we are naturally born and grow up dislike that kind of thinking.
