My boyfriend's ex is telling me lies about him?

Block her messages, delete her as a contact, protect your heart and wait.

If your boyfriend is doing these things it won't take lone to see it.

If he's not, you are missing out on a great relationship b/c his ex gf wants him back or at least not to be with you. Woman up!

i think you should keep on trusting your boyfriend . the reason for that is because why would she come out of the blue talking about your boyfriend is doing this and that and saying he's doing coke ? she's just craving attention and obviously has some type of feelings for him still . she's probably trying to put things in your head so you can leave him and do some type of work to get back in his life. you've been with him for a decent time now so you don't even pay attention to what she's saying . she's just trying to get in your relationship when she just needs to accept the fact that he's with you now and needs to her mind her business . if he's not leaving you suspicious about things than don't even pay mind to it.

Confront him about it. If he's so unwilling to explain himself. He's on the defensive. Meaning he's hiding something.(usually) Though as someone else asked "Why the hell are you talking to her?" Yes, why are you talking to her? You usually can't/shouldn't trust an ex-gf/bf(usually gf.) Mainly because a lot of women get jealous.(Not meaning to sound sexist or offensive, but it's usually true.) And in there jealousy, may spout lies.

Again though you should confront him. Especially about the drug(since it's a VERY dangerous one like coke!). Though the drug may be a touchy subject...

Sounds to me like you have a future home wrecker on your hands. Stop talking to his ex! If you are going to listen to his "EX" and believe what she is saying, and don't believe she has any self interest in the matter, then you might not be a very rational person, and I wouldn't want to date you either. I don't mean to be rude, but give the dude a chance to prove himself. Trust is one of the key elements in a healthy relationship. Good luck.

Well. He's absolutely right about the trust part. If you can't trust him then there is a problem. Some people lie & cheat, some people just lie, and some people don't. You just can't always just tell, what's what & who is who. I'm sorry to say. You are just going to have to fallow your instincts.

Good luck!

the fact that you are inclined to believe it is a bad sign. if your gut says that you shouldn't trust him, you might want to evaluate where you stand in your relationship. you should ask the ex for proof, and if your bf gets upset, talk it out. ask him why he is being so defensive about all of it. let him know that it's because you value your relationship that you think it's worth looking into.

I have been in the situation and i think its best if you dont believe this girl b/c it sounds like she is only trying to mskr ysll have relationship problems and stuff i would trust my boyfreind b/c you are suppose to have trust in a relationship.

believe the girl, i'm sorry to say this but you're bf is a jerk. just like my ex, he kept telling me he wouldn't cheat on me and when we broke up i found out all the rumors about him cheating were true. so believe the ex gf.

you probably shouldve looked at the message when she sent it to you. maybe you should ask her if she has any evidence of this (messages etc) but dont let him know that yo are talking to here about it.if she cant prove it, shes probably lieing and you should trust your partner

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