Do you have borderline personality disorder?

Scorpio

I would say sensitive as far as knowing when I'm rejected but not really ever fazed as far as being hurt or really bothered. No, I don't think I have pervasive moon instability.

I rarely have problems within relationships unless I'm with someone who just clashes with my personality, quite naturally. I get along with most people. No, no rush of anxiety or any that crap.

I'm not afraid of being alone, I enjoy it actually. People are annoying often more times than not. I just hate being terribly bored.

Sometimes I struggle with insecurities as far as my image is involved. I don't like the feeling of someone giving me TOO much praise, I guess in some instances I can feel unworthy or simply UNCOMFORTABLE. No, no substance abuse.

I'm very much so self-aware as far as my emotions go, I'm rarely ever confused when it comes to my feelings. I know myself VERY well and how to identify emotions with myself AND others, so no distortion in cognition. I'm very voal and confident in that area of self-expression and assessment.

I am quite drastic with positivity with negativity due to disappointments, which I think is kind of natural. I consider myself more realistic than negative though. I'm relatively close to my immediate family members but no one else too much because of the past. I forgive but never forget.

My zodiac sign in CANCER.

Am i sensitive to signs of rejection? Not that much, i just really dont care an more. Their loss.

Do i have pervasive moon instability? Im a teenager, so my horomones are crazy, which makes me moody, other than that, we'll have to wait and see (:

Do i have trouble with your relationships? Yeah.

Hard time getting along with people? Sometimes

Do i have short (hours) periods of a rush of anxiety, and depression? Yes, but then again, that maybe due to the fact that i am a TEENAGER.

Am i afraid of being alone? Hell no, i wanna be alone.

Do you make frantic efforts to avoid being alone? No

Do you have self image issues? Kinda, because i was Sexually and Verbally abused when i was a kid and im a teen , GO FIGURE :(

Do you view yourself as fundamentally bad or unworthy? Again, i was Sexually and Verbally abused as a child, so that might have a lot to do with it, im a teenager aswell so sometimes i do, but i keep reminding myself that i AM WORTHY and i am a GOOD PERSON no matter what anyone says ! I know myself and im not gonna let anyone tell me otherwise :)

Have you ever done substance abuse? Alcohol, pills, antihistamine medication, cigarettes, nail polish remover, markers, coffee? .... Nope

Have you ever noticed distortion in cognition? Not being able to express what you feel.. not being able to figure out what you feel? Yes, alot actually. Buuut like i said before, im a teen and an past abuse victim.

Have you suffered a drastic shift from positivity to negativity? Lost respect and admiration for your family... and switched it with hate and disgust? 100% Yes, many people noticed that too.

My zodiac sign is Leo

Yes i think Leo's and myself personally can be sensitive to rejection, because that crunch our pride but we get over it quickly.

No not really so far as i know..

In every relationship you have ups and down right? I don't find it hard to get along with people i think it also depend how that other person is. No i don't have any sign of short periods rush, anxiety or depression.

Yes i'm a bit scared to be alone i like to be with people for whom i care and love a lot.

I only avoid people when i feel like to be alone or when i feel blue.

When i was a teenager i used pills and alcohol thank god nothing happened

Mostly i'm able to tell how i feel.

For some people i have lost respect but i don't hate them hate is such a big word isn't it?

I'm a Gemini.

I fear criticism, yes.

No mood instability (ok, only when I'm PMSing, LOL)

No hard time with fiance, I get along with most people, and sometimes I get pretty bad anxiety, but no depression.

I do not fear being alone. I enjoy solitude from time to time.

I used to have self-image issues, but what teenage girl didn't? Seriously. Not any more, though.

I was a druggie for about 3 years, hard core. Every day was another magic pill, concoction, experiment, etc. I have been sober for almost 11 years now. Still smoke :(

I have always been expressive of my feelings.

No and no and NO for the last one. :)

I think I'm pretty healthy :)

I'm gonna do this 'cause it interests me.

I'm a Gemini.

I'm not very afraid of rejection, 'cause I've come to accept reality.

My moods are kept on check most of the time.

I don't have any trouble getting along with people and my relationships are usually very good actually.

But I have had anxiety issues, and I'd shake whenever I know something bad's going to happen or whenever I can feel someone's anger. I'll shake.

And depression, I don't think I've experienced very dramatically. But I used to go to therapy for my parents divorce because apparently I was depressed but I'm not sure.

I'm not afraid of being alone for short periods of time, but I'm afraid of being alone when I grow up, and I'm trying my best to find someone now and settle down at a young age so I'm not alone throughout my life.

I'm not the most confident, and I usually put myself down and tell myself I'm not good enough.

I haven't done substance abuse.

YES, I'll be upset for no reason, but I'll be happy at the same time. It's like I'm on autopilot and I don't know whether or not I should be smiling or breaking down. It's confusing.

It's impossible for me to hate anyone, especially my family.

First........... What is your zodiac sign? Virgo sun, Cancer moon, Leo asc

Are you sensitive to signs of rejection?

-No.

Do you have pervasive mood instability?

-No.

Do you have trouble with your relationships?

-No

Hard time getting along with people?

-Sometimes.

Do you have short (hours) periods of a rush of anxiety, and depression?

-I used to, but not anymore.

Are you afraid of being alone?

-No.

Do you make frantic efforts to avoid being alone?

-No.

Do you have self image issues?

-Yes.

Do you view yourself as fundamentally bad or unworthy?

-Unworthy of a lot of things, even though people say I'm wrong about that.

Have you ever done substance abuse?

-No.

Alcohol, pills, antihistamine medication, cigarettes, nail polish remover, markers, coffee?

-No.

Have you ever noticed distortion in cognition? Not being able to express what you feel.. not being able to figure out what you feel?

-Sometimes.

Have you suffered a drastic shift from positivity to negativity?

-Yes.

Lost respect and admiration for your family... and switched it with hate and disgust?

-No.

You and anyone other than a professional psychiatrist should never be self-diagnosing anybody.

Everyone fits in somewhere between personality disorder spectrums.

If someone has anti-social tendencies does this automatically make them a sociopath?

If someone has narcissistic personality tendencies, does this make them a narcissist?

It does not. You need to get a proper diagnosis from a professional. To self-diagnose yourself is counter-productive and will leave you an unhappy. If you suspect you have BPD, talk to your doctor. It is a serious personality disorder.

-I'm a pisces.

-I'm sensative to rejections. Sometimes its hard to get over other times idc.

-I don't have problems with relationships. Have a hard time getting in one because I'm so stuborn. I get along with everyone, even if we got in a argument. I'm always the one to peace it up. I'm very patient, I rush nothing. Sometimes I'm depressed over nothing.

-I love beinq alone. It makes me imagine and daydream.

-I don't have self image issues. But I am a fiqhter.

-I love drinkinq but not on a daily basics.

-I never exspress how I feel, I just sit back and watch everything in my life pass me. I never know how I feel until it's too late.

-I sometimes feel disqust about my family but I can't do nothing but live with it.

Gemini sun

Aries moon

Why are you posting this? Don't you think it's a bit wrong, you're contributing to the public image of people with mental disorders, like they CHOOSE to be that way? Or they have some fancy name for it? Some self diagnosis questionnaire that may make mentally sound people think there's something wrong with them.

Pisces and I don't agree with all of what you mentioned. There are way better BPD lists.

I think BPD is a very interesting personality disorder. Some with it are extreme, some of it are hardly noticed... except perhaps among the people who are close to them. And some actually like being alone... I love it, but I don't have BPD. Although I do believe I have a higher % of the traits than what is considered normal. (as all people have some BPD traits).

When I'm with a guy I try to be constantly ready to be abandoned.

When I was in a relationship I could miss him a lot one day, another day almost feel disgusted thinking of him. I had mood swings at times when I was with him, suddenly believing he was going to leave me... or if he said something that hurt me, and I felt as if I wasn't good enough. Once I felt like crying because it seemed like he wanted to go home, and I didn't feel ready to go home and be all alone.

At times I felt as if he didn't exist because we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks or so. I've had rare moments when I feel as if I don't exist or belong to this world. Once(?) I wondered if people would see me if I walked outside... I felt transparent.

I used to read a blog often and sometimes I could be worried that I'd act like her (she's provocative) and while walking outside I felt, a couple of times, as if I looked like her.

Anyway... Me and that guy had to break up because I was moving to a city about 6 hours away, and before we broke up I felt a bit scared, didn't want to... It was like he wasn't his own person, but had become a part of me. And I was scared of removing a part of myself.

I wrote down my feelings and thoughts at times, else I wouldn't remember much at all.

It's hard for me to look back on nice memories, my feelings, thoughts and emotions live in the moment and not the past. If a guy I'm with/dating tell me that he loves me one day, I usually don't expect him to feel the same the next day.

I think people with BPD want things their way, and I can be very moody if a guy doesn't act the way I want him to. But no one can be perfect, as I sometimes want to be left alone and sometimes I want a lot of love. They mostly get mood swings in close relationships... personally it's like my mood swings come to life when I'm with/dating a guy.

Edit: Oh and I've read that people with BPD can feel the urge to break up with their partner, to then get him/her back. I felt like that. I fantasized about us arguing, breaking up, him telling he can't live without me and us feeling passionate and strong feelings of love.

I think they can be quite egoistic, wanting to be loved but not giving as much back. Almost as if the partner is a parent.