Hi I am fascinated with the idea of threesome..?

Hi D,

If she is not interested then you can do a lot of damage to her psychologically if you push the idea or try to arrange a surprise threesome for her. Best advice is to give her about a year without talking about it in order to allow her to process the idea and then try revisiting the idea again. While the subject is not being discussed take time to make her feel secure in her relationship with you. I am not saying this will change her mind and she may never agree to it. However if you give her time and make her feel secure then you are increasing the chance she might say 'yes' to it.

You don't have a clue about women!

Most women do everything they do centered around the identity of "relationship". For you to bring in 3rd parties INTO your marriage is a destruction to that "relationship". For her, it is no longer special. In fact, there is no longer a relationship. It's just sex. Which is where most guys are. Guys don't operate in the realm of "relationship".

That's why so many immature guys see everything through the lens of "sex". Women don't!

For you to even bring up the subject tells your wife she is not special at all. She is just a piece of meat. Even IF you don't follow through with this insane idea, you are going to have YEARS and YEARS and YEARS to work through trying to reconcile back to where your relationship used to be. Your wife now KNOWS your true character. Without any sex, you just screwed the pooch!

Thats very nice of you fascinating the idea of 3some, most of guys think of that.. but my friend do you thing its a right choice for your wife?? your wife is part of you and you are selling your wife to other and if thats make you happy enought to screw your wife life than plz go ahead , only a jerk will do that.

Get a prostitute and BANG HER... NOT UR WIFE ... or you can do one thing ask your wife to bring home one of her boyfren and do it, AND NOW WOULD YOU EFFECT WITH PSYCHOLOGICALLY ?????? your choice my fren, love your wife!!!!

Most modern women seldom care about others looking at them with lust.If a woman were to have firm n heavy bxxbs,then it s bound to b visible when they wear tops.Do not take things for granted as such women will b very much intimate with their own mates n will never indulge in flirting with other men.

You both have to be 100% into the idea. If she feels like you talked her into doing it, she won't have a good time and it can cause a great deal of strain on your marriage.

Some things are meant to stay a fantasy. Get over everything you've ever seen in **** movies and focus on making your marriage work.

It's one of those ideas that "sound good on paper" but has long-lasting negative effects. Keep your fantasy in your brain

if the same proposal comes from ur wife before u prpose, will u accept it? be honest and don't do those ugly acts wihich are possible in **** only?