WHAT IS GOING ON??? need input, ideas something?

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OK...been with him 4yrs..he has family out of state, he's goes to visit family once in a while, i cant always go cuz of my work, when he goes he does contract work for his family, that was always ok with me...this time it was odd cuz the phone calls stopped comin as often, etc...ok 2 days no hear from him, i call & got into an argument, i hung up on him, next day i get a text from him tellin me that it aint working out wtf...a text. ok refused to talk to me for the longest time etc. he came by about a month later to pick up stuff that he needed for work..ok but he left stuff behind why? why did he not take it all? he still wont talk to me over the phone, wouldnt talk to me that day he picked up his stuff either..but my question is why wont he give me closure...why does he text me..oh yeah he texts me sometimes, every 2-3 days...ok i would answer back, but these last few times i didnt...also the stuff he left here @ my house, some was thrown to the garbage & the rest i put in the shed so he can pick up later...but my question is why? what could have possibly gone wrong here, no clue, everything seemed great before he left. and my god with a text he does this to me after four years, does anybody with more experience out there know what the heck he is thinking? ok i talked to his mom, thinkin there was another woman, but nah...there aint...so any body please fill me in give me ideas im going crazy here...its been 2 months now more or less thanks for all the input

LIPPIE · Accepted Answer

Only he can answer this, and since he isn't talking you will have to wait until he does.  Oh, course you must sit by the phone, and hope he will call and stop your life because he did this,  NOT!  You move on, and start leading your life the way you want. I don't mean go date, because you are not over him yet, but you need to start building a life without him, if he comes back you have to ask yourself if he really is what you want.

Anonymous · Answer

Do you really think his mom would know if he was having sex with some girl, or would betray his trust and tell you if he was. He obviously has no respect for you. He is stringing you along, for whatever reason, maybe he wants to use you for money, emotional support and just have a booty call now and then. The amount of time he's spent with you has nothing to do with him treating you with respect or not. He's a dog. Throw his crap out all in the trash and tell him to take a hike. Block his number if you have to and move on. I dated someone for 5 1/2 years that treated me like crap and would do stuff like that. I'm glad he's gone.

? · Answer

Were not your boyfriend, we don't know what is going on through his head. To me it sounds like he either met someone new that he really loves or there is more to the story you're not telling us.

Just cause his mother said there isn't another girl in the picture doesn't mean that is always entirely true. His mother could be sticking to her sons side and staying out of the drama.

? · Answer

i admire Jordan James and Jordan Jeffery. i'm a huge supporter of the double initials. i think of Jordan James is way less complicated to declare, yet the two one would artwork. in case you have been going to apply yet another call, then i'd do Liam Dylan or Landon Liam, yet Jordan James or Jordan Jeffery would be terrific. Congrats :)

Anonymous · Answer

I think his mother is not bein honest
and she lied to protect her son in some way

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WHAT IS GOING ON??? need input, ideas something?

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