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Do you think i am "in love"?

Okay well I am only 13, but I believe you can fall in love at any age. My boyfriend and I basically did everything we could to date. First off, my best friend liked him and I liked him more, so I dated him secretely. To keep it a secret, I didn't tell my parents. And my best friend was so close to my family she told my mom basically everything. So my mom knew that she liked him. And she didn't allow me to date him,But I didn't care. I dated him. Me and him cried together and told eachother how much we loved eachother and we were really depressed that nobody would accept that we "love" eachother. Until one day I told my mom everything and now she understands. My parents know me and him are dating, and I lost my best friend over him. We have been dating for 2 months without ANY problems. And I can be myself around him. When we kiss I feel absolutely amazing, and he tells me so much, when I'm upset I can open up to him, and me and him can joke and laugh together and act like idiots. He said he doesn't care what I look like around him, so yesterday when we were hanging out I wore my hair pulled in a bun, no makeup and sweat pants. And he treated me like gold. 2 fridays ago, me and him went by a pond and just hung out and played in the mud and acted stupid. We went back to his house, covered in mud and water and just laughed. we both love being with eachother, and I feel AMAZING when I'm with him, am I in love? And he feels the same way I feel.. what I mean to say is, are WE in love? Please tell me what you think, and if u think we will last a long time cause I'm so happy with him..and PLEASE don't say I'm only 13, cause I know that.but you can fall in love at any age.

Update:

btw, he just turned 14

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think you are both in love. You are right you can fall in love at any age and seems like you are in love. Talk to him about it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sabrina, why would you date someone you don't like? And why would you have done all these things if you hadn't been in love? I think you already have the answers to all of your questions!

    But I must say to you, being in love at 13 is different from being in love when you're older. Now it might be very nice to go out and kiss your lover but then you'll see that there are many important things in a relationship.

    Take care and have fun!

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that if you have to ask, then you're not really in love. Yet. I think that you definitely have someone special and you should stay with him, but don't do anything crazy and you could have a nice life.

    By the way, I'm going to a wedding soon for my cousin who has been dating his fiancé for 13 years, since he was 11. So I think you CAN fall in love at any age.

  • 1 decade ago

    girl this is exactly how it is with me and this other guy right now...im in high school by the way...yeah we go and roll around in the mud, and once he kissed me with mud all ove his mouth...yeah we're cute...but sounds like you're right girl..just don't get too serious with it right now (like sex, it's sooo complicated, and it makes things weird afterwards) but I mean enjoy this feeling you have. Sorry to make you read this, but this kind of "love" is actually called infactuation...which is why you feel and fluttery and stuff...so it's not LOVE LOVE..love is actually when youre brain sends these super cool chemicals to another persons brain that basically make you think "I wanna make babies with this person.." so yeah..

    Source(s): my life which doesnt suck
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  • 1 decade ago

    Aw thats sweet.

    I wish I had what you had - jealous!!

    anyway. I'm 13 too,

    and I think you can fall in love at any age.

    Just make sure you trust him, and think things through.

    If anything bad happens talk it out.

    What I'm trying to say is, keep hold of what you got

    kay!!

  • 1 decade ago

    yes, I do. But the real test of love , is time. You can have different types of love. If you two part ways and meet up years later and still feel the same way, it is with out a question love.

    Love withstands the tests of time.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    How old is the boy? You haven't said. Please know boys will very often tell you anything you want to hear so long as they get what they want, so while it feels like love, look at the whole situation with open eyes and guard your heart.

    Source(s): Experience.
  • 1 decade ago

    I toke me 13 months to fully realize I loved my boyfriend and I'm seventeen. We did things similar to yoy and we rarely fought. It just toke me that long to know 100%. I think you're just infatuated.

  • 1 decade ago

    Awwwww. thats so sweet i think you guys really really like each other and are in love with the idea of being in love. but try to make it last and see if you guys still really like each other then you can decide if you are in love:) hope this helps:)

  • 1 decade ago

    Why are you asking this question? Don't you have confidence with neither him or yourself.

    Well, just trust each other and it will last for a long time....

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