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If your fiancé control u,is it a bad thing?(ladies only)?
My friends say my fiancé is controlling me 2 much,ever since I got raped twice he told me not 2 wear spaghetti straps mini skirts or shorts.I listen 2 him,my friends tease me I'm a pet 2 him.Can u tell me am I in the wrong 2 listen 2 my fiancé?
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- marys.mommaLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
Your fiancé is concerned that you may be putting yourself in danger by wearing provocative clothing. This is a rather simplistic reaction, but there still is some validity to it.
Put aside your resentment about being told what to do, and consider the situation on its merits. Is it an isolated case – just the skimpy clothing issue – or does he always have strong opinions on how you should behave, where you can go, what you should eat, whom you can have for friends, and so forth?
Marriage always involves wanting to make one's partner happy. Give some thought to how much you're willing to compromise on various issues. Think about whether your friends are trying to control you as well. And give very serious consideration to how you can keep clear of dangerous predators. A lot of men would not stay with a woman who has been raped. Your fiancé cares about you, and is trying to help you, in his own way.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
He can suggest things to you but you but he shouldn't be commanding you to do anything. If you are comfortable with wearing those clothes then wear them. In the end you know whats best for you. If he has a problem with it then he can go find someone else who will do exactly what he tells them.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think that he is right to be concerned for you and want you to be safe but you shouldn't let him control you because he has no right to do that.