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Should I stop talking to him?

Wow I can't believe him. He asked me how much I love him. I said enough to think about you each day. He said he'll choose between me and his gf on who loves him more...

First WHAT? You did not tell me you had a gf. You should of told me that before you said you loved me. Shouldnt of led me on. Second NO! Are you telling me to please you and compete with another girl I don't know, 'cause you want to choose which one loves you more? You should be the one choosing who you love more!

I told him to just forget it and don't break up with her. He said "Nooo...." He's not worth my time if he doesn't know who he loves.

He probally thought I was desperate or some crap. Just 'cause he can get two girls doesn't mean crap. If he was to start bragging, I would win.

Wasting my time, leading me on thinking he loves me, having no idea who he loves. It's all bullcrap. So should i just stop talking to him? I mean theres no going to be friendship anyways, and i wouldnt want to be friends with a liar.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Well I am not going to lie I have been in your same situation before.

    What you need to do is drop him. Completely.

    I know it Is hard and I know it may seem impossible but this way you'll know for sure you won't get hurt anymore than u already have with him. Plus if he has a heart at all he'll feel bad. If he tries to talk to you, ignore him. Start hangin with your friends, they'll help you through this.

    Whatever you do DO NOT go back to him. Once a cheater always a cheater. It's cliche, I know, but there are many different fish in the sea :] and you will find another one someday. The right one. Hope this helps!! :]

    Source(s): Personal experience
  • 1 decade ago

    So this sounds like MY boy friend. If you really like him, you'll give him another chance, but he has to know that he only gets the ONE chance to fix what he did. If you don't care about him enough to do this, then he isnt worth the time or effort u put in.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think the fact that he said he loved you yet could not even be honest in the first place to tell you he had a gf means you deserve a lot better. end that, but easier said than done, good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    YES YES YES. please if you know whats good for you STOP talking to him NOW. yer just gunna get hurt in the end, even if he does choose you, you'll always know he's unfaithful because he has a gf currently and he's talking to you saying he loves you and talking about how he needs to choose between the two of you. see that's really messed up. if you know what good for you take yer phone and ERASE his number NOW. ggggggggggggggggooooooooooooooooooooddddddddddddddddlllllllllllllllllllllllluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuccccccccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk:)))))))))

    hey PS i saw yer link on a different question where you asked people to answer yer question so i did so can you please answer mine??????

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AttPd...

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  • yeah you should stop talking to him...his just one of the jerks in the world who doesn't know how to love!!! if he knew what love is then he knows which one for sure. i mean come on who would announce that you don't know which one to pick you or the other one! his just a waste of your time>:l

    Source(s): had the same story but he was picking THREE girls or should i say a 3 timer...haha we found out and played around with him..hahahahaha can't forget that...sweet revenge xP
  • that is what i call a jerk! you deserve better and he doesnt deserve you! stop talking to him. he is using you. im sorry to say. but you are better than that. i am sure you can find a guy that appreciates you for you! <3

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he sounds like a chill guy. you should stay with him. And what one of you is better looking? that always matters too. make sure he doesnt like you for who you are, thats bullshit. if he's gonna choose her go give him a lap dance

    Source(s): Personal Experience
  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should. Theres no point of talking to him if you dont even wanna be his friend anymore.

  • 1 decade ago

    He sounds like a loser, definitely stop talking to him. I feel like I want to stop talking to him and I don't even know him :P

  • 1 decade ago

    Be friends but don't date. It will make that *** want you more and he won't be able to have you. Perfect pay back. Lol

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