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is my mom physically abusing me?
she yells at me constantly for little things like calling my brother a name or something stupid. then she yanks me up and grabs my arms and starts shaking me, cussing at me and calling me a "selfish fat b*tch." just because i didn't do the dishes or got in a little bicker with my brother. (normal teenage stuff, right?) i mean, she could have atleast talked it out with me in a mature way, instead of throwing me to the floor and flipping out. I don't know if she has personal issues or what, but you should not physically grab and hurt your daughter for something completely ridiculous. its not like i got pregnant, or killed somebody, right? I am very confused because our family is not that messed up. we live in a good house, my parents are together, we seem pretty normal. what should i do?? Even after i apologize to my brother, or do the dishes, she still finds ways to blame me in every situation, and it always ends withe me crying and litterally trying to defend myself. she never does throw punches, or leave bruses, etc. but it hurts when it happens! and it hurts really bad emotionally, because i feel like i am being abused at this point. is this abuse?? WHAT should i do?? she NEVER does this to my brother! what's going on? i'm fourteen by the way :(
she does not call me fat! but she does call me a b*tch, she says a lot of other bad things too :p
this doesn;t happen every day, only recently a few times, and maybe like... once a month but not that miuch. and i love my mom and my family a lot, and she's okay the rest of the time actually a pretty good mom... one of the reasons i just don't understand why she would act out on me like this :(
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well yes I guess it could be considered that. Talk to your mom about it and how you feel when she does that. If it gets any worse call the police or tell your dad what she does
- Anonymous1 decade ago
a piece of advice to ur bride, these rage attacks are most likely casued build up in horiemons, this is typical in parents, my father, Ferdenand B. Feaguson, was a Norwejian fisherman, and used to place me in a burlap bag and beat me senslessly with reeds when ever father needed a fapping. You see my dear, my mother was a young Saudia-Arabian who left my father to live a life at sea long ago. my father has been a devient and a chronic masterbaiter since. But died christmas eve 3 years back. He dropped a 40 pound sack of rocks on his back while performing autofilatio , but was unable to lift the weight and choked on his own scrotum, a sad christams for the Feagusons indeed. Unfortunatley my father is most likely burning in hell bc he was not a devout muslim. Which leads me to my next question, are you a follower of Allah ? Allah loves all his children. andy way as for ur current prodicomend, i suggest u purchase a "condamn" or so to speak, for ur mother so she can wack off 3 to 5 times a day. see if that helps! Hope this was helpifull! Praise be to Allah! Thanks Guys!!! Bye!!!!
Sincereley,
Mac THE abuse esxpert
Source(s): :) praise be to Allah - 1 decade ago
I know that you probable don't want to do this but, I would call the police or a social worker. You need to help yourself you can't live like that forever! You could also talk to a counselor at school or an adult that you really trust about it and they can help. Do not be afraid to talk to someone.w
- Depp fanLv 61 decade ago
Report her to your teacher or to the police but be ready to be moved to a foster home. Sorry she is treating you like that but you don't need to be abused in this day and age. Help is available to you.
Source(s): I was physically abused by my mother for years. I left home at the age of 17, after I graduated from high school. I never went back. - How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
- 1 decade ago
tell someone at your school like a teacher or guidance counselor. they are legally obligated to report this to CPS. they will come to your home and investigate. If things are bad enough, you will be removed from your parents custody, temporarily. If your parents dont cooperate and change, permenantly.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
She is physically abusing you and it might be because of stress or she was abused as a child...The best thing to do is to just try to deal with it for now. do your chores right and don't call your brother names. Sorry
