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How to deal with angry girlfriend?

..dump her or ditch her is not an option..

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Just keep quiet and stay away for a couple of days. Then you ask her why is she so angry.

    By then she probably isn't so angry anymore and you can tackle the problem together.

    If you know why she is so angry, and the cause is you, then you should apologize even if it's not your fault because you can't leave her.

    Sucks to be you..

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    ..dump her or ditch her is not an option..

    Deal yourself first. It takes a Man to be a Man. If you are not in fault stand up what is right, don't let her push you around.

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to learn how to deal with her when she is angry. A woman can be unpredictable due to hormone changes. So it depends what she is angry at. Talk to her about it. Can a doctor help ? Is she lacking in something? Try and find a reason If you love each other and care deeply for each other then it's just something to learn about.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    She has a serious problem with eating. Perhaps her doctor can suggest appetite suppressants. Even if she is hungry all the time, that is no reason to get angry with you or raise her voice. The only reason she needs the food so bad is that her metabolism has to support her ponderous bulk. She will have serious health problems later in life, or even earlier. Her life will be very difficult for that reason. Are you sure you want to share that with her? She doesn't seem deserving of your love. She doesn't feel good about herself, uses food to comfort that insecurity, and if she doesn't get it then she uses you as a sounding board for her own lack of self worth. First what you have to do is say to her "Look, I appreciate that you are hungry but if you are going to get angry and raise your voice to me every time you want to go out to eat, then you can go out yourself because I want no part of that". Be firm but fair with her. Second, why don't you say "ok we can go out to eat but I will decide where this time" and then go to a vegan restaurant or noodle house or something ethnic that is tasty/spicy but not so filling/high calories/high fat/high salt. Tell her "sweety I care about your health ok so why don't we try this kind of food instead". And finally you can try this "i brought some food home and I am going to cook a special meal for the two of us". Food is important to her, but show you care, show you want her to be healthy, and show her you take her health and your health seriously. But she has to be first of all fair to you and not get upset/raise her voice. There is no excuse for that behavior. Maybe if you show her a better way to eat, and she loses even a few pounds, she will appreciate what you try to do for her. But ask yourself this, is she worth the effort?

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  • jimmy
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Go back to your mother... After the storm is over, your gf will go looking for you... and behave as if nothing has happened....however, be ready with a bouquet of real red roses.....

  • 1 decade ago

    since you can't dump her you have no choice! You can't win a argument, so "Silence is Golden" is actually meant for this!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No deal in this case :p

  • 1 decade ago

    if its because your mistake-honest apologies (normally women will know its honest or not...)

    if not your mistake, explain honestly and give her time to think.

    be honest ,calm , matured

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Leave her alone for a day or two days.

    Then say sorry to her (even if it's not your fault).

    Then you can have fun again.....

    Source(s): Experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just be gentle and tell her you still love her

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