This question is to all pregnant ladies or who have kids?

First, you need to go to the doc and find out the source of the pain. Mine was endometriosis, and even though I had 3 previous children, the scar tissue has grown out of control, causing things to be out of whack and painful, and not conceive, even after 2 years of trying. I had a procedure to remove it, and after another 5 months of trying, I am now 39 weeks pregnant with #4. Good luck!

My friend at work had endometriosis (sp). And the same symptoms as you. She had one baby and couldn't get pregnant again. She found out 17 years later that she had endometriosis and could have had the amount of children that she wanted and didn't need to live with the pain. Needless to say she was devestated that this had been missed by her doctor.

They say to wait at least a year before considering that you may not be able to get preggo. It took me from August till January of trying before I got pregnant and I tracked my cycle very very well. I was about to buy one of these ( http://www.clearblueeasy.com/clearblue-easy-fertil... ) and then I missed my period and I am now 13 weeks pregnant. I was getting scared thinking that maybe because I took birth control pills for so many years that I couldn't get pregnant or that I messed something up. Also make sure you relax about it all, the stress of trying to get pregnant could cause you to hinder your chances. I hope you get your little blessing soon :)

Research a vitamin called Vitex. I swear by it. I was TTC for over 5 years & got pregnant after taking it only a few times.