oh my god i just hit my girlfriend for the first time and feel awkward and need help?

im a girl and she sounds like a crazy immmature ***** to me, sure its wrong for guys to hit girls but she sounds like she treats you awful and was being ridiculous there and thinks its okay to hit you loads, so yeah she had it coming. try and talk it through with her? just explain that she like crossed the line and she was being ridiculous and she coulda killed you both and stuff and apologise but say she provoked you and it was a reflex action, if she doesn't understand that then you should dump her cause she doesn't treat you right

I'm sorry but I really hate this inequality where people think that a man should never hit a woman but a woman is allowed to hit a man with impunity. I think that noone should ever be allowed to hit anyone ever. She HIT you, and you really could get her reported for assault, but I know you didn't and you wouldn't, because men just put up with it.

On the other hand, you retaliated, and what you did was called retaliatory violence, which isn't right either, but it was the only way you could stop her. She also put your little brother in a dangerous position, and you have to think about that. Do you REALLY want to be with someone who only cared about their perceived anger, and didn't even care that they endangered a young boy?

look, i do NOT support domestic violence or anything, you held back for so long, i mean, she hit you, and you ignored it FOR awhile, but she was going crazy, possible she could have killed oyu guys, why the hell was she going crazy, how old is she? i mean, you could stopped the car, grabbed her and tell her to calm down, but you took a more reactive response, she spat at you, so natuarally you responded quickly, it was defensive, you feel bad, so.... god this is confusing, i mena she was going crazy, and she even slapped youa nd almost killed oyu and your lil bro (possibly, if he was there at the time) but she was just being crazy, god this is confusing!!!! i don't know what to say, i am just going to assume this is a fictional/hipothetical question or your a troll, casue i can't answer this one, too confusing for me, to say if it was right or wrong.

You're both obviously not able to function together as a couple. It's only going to get worse. Walk away. Find someone new, you can't make her work on herself, but you can work on yourself.

I don't encourage nobody hitting anybody but lol. She asked for that. She should have never hit you. She was wrong for what she did. And now that you hit her back your wrong too.

keep on wearing her down and ruin her life fukin ***** who dose she think she is hitting a man. she got a taste of her own medicine

Hey cool now you've erned a wife beater!

You only feel awkward?

Do you not feel ashamed?

Sounds like you deserved it to me! :0)

i would finish with this girl if i was you she sounds like she has issues bro