15 year old having safe sex with boyfriend?

You have no business having sex...of ANY kind. Are you able to quit school, get a job, support yourself, your boyfriend and a baby? Are you emotionally ready for such an experience? Is your boyfriend ready for this too? If the answer to ANY of these is no, then again, you have no business having sex. You are a CHILD. Your body is no where near fully developed, nor is your mind. 99% of young relationships are fleeting, and you have no concept of real love yet. Im surprised that your parents have allowed both you and your boyfriend to spend the night at each others houses, and I hope that your parents talk to the boys parents about your situation. Besides the fact that you are not mature enough to handle any of the possible consequences of sex at your age...it is ILLEGAL. I hope that you will talk more with your parents and do the responsible thing, which is to abstain.

Hello, based on the conversation between you and your mom, she only is looking for your best interest. I believe that you should explain to your mom what happened and how you feel towards your boyfriend. Let her know the relationship you have is more than just sex and he actually cares about you, tell her stories when he did nice and romantic things for you. Listen to what your mom has to say and stay open minded. If you think what you did was wrong, let your mom know that too and why. If not, again explain. Show your mom how you feel and what changes (if any), you'll be doing when it comes to you and your boyfriend. Wish you the best.

Definitely talk to your mom! Honestly all the best advice I have ever gotten in my life came from my mom.

I think we had this chat when I was about 11 and she was open and willing to answer and questions I ever had. You are going to hear that you need to be emotionally ready and know everything you can about anyone you are having sex with. You need to be safe at all times and REGRET FREE! My mom knew when I first started having sex and made sure I was on birth control (I highly recommend you talk about that and look into it as well). I never once had a "oh my god could I be pregnant" moment because I was safe and knew how to protect myself. I also never regretted sleeping with anyone because I took all the time I needed to get to know them and made sure I was really ready for any consequence that comes along with having sex.

I hope you have no regrets and are as safe as you can be! I also hope your mom is as awesome as mine and doesn't judge but helps you. That's what mom's are for after all!

So after all that just stay calm when talking to her and don't be shy ASK Question! Listen to what she says and know that she was your age once too... you will know what to do from there.

This is why your to young for sex, good job for using a condom but you made an adult decision and now you have to face the consequences you have to face an extremely embarrassing conversation with your mother about sex that is an adult situation your obviously are not ready to deal with yet or you wouldn't be asking strangers what to do. now that I have said that your mom probably trusted you or else he would not have been spending weekends at your house, so on top of being disappointed she feels betrayed. Tell your mom your sorry for being irresponsible when she trusted you and tried to be there for you by letting him spend weekends with you and your family tell her you realize you may have gone to fast to soon and that you don't like it when she is disappointed in you and you love him and thought you were ready but now realize maybe you weren't ready cause if you were ready you would not be embarrassed for the choice you made. Honey please slow down you have years to add trouble to your life do not be in such a hurry. Yes as you get older you'll get more freedom to make your own decisions but with that comes prices to pay prices to high to pay for a young lady such as your self

Your parents made the mistake of allowing sleepovers. You have also been dating only 3 months..that's not serious. At your age, it's way too soon to be intimate. I hope your Mom also brings up the fact that condoms do break. I remember when I was back in HS, I had several friends who got pregnant using condoms.

It's normal for you to be interested in sex at your age. But being sexually active also means being sexually responsible. 30% of all women get pregnant in their teens. If you're not ready to give up your social life as a single girl permanently and your education or career for the next five years, then make sure you're taking some type of birth control. If you're both virgins you probably don't have to worry about STDs, but I would still suggest using condoms because you are much more at risk to get an STD if he strays than the other way around. Until you're in a long term, committed, stable relationship he can show you he respects your body by wearing a condom.

Yes, depending on the age of your boyfriend sex with him MAY be illegal. Usually, if he's more than three years older than you and you're a minor, he could be charged with statutory rape. If your parents are mad, they COULD charge him. Search "age of consent" or "statutory rape" and your state online for specifics.

I say listen to what your Mom has to say and try your hardest to understand her concerns. Respect what she has to say even if you don't agree with it. If she believes boys are "cool" if they get with a bunch of girls but girls are "stupid" to have sex with boys than she had a double standard and you're in a rough spot. You may need to talk to your school nurse or pediatrician for advice if you choose to continue being sexually active.

However, sneaking behind your Mom's back is not good for your relationship with her or the guy you're sleeping with. Maybe if she won't listen to you, you should both go talk to your pediatrician or school nurse about what is "normal" sexual behavior for a girl your age. However, I do not know of any parent that lets their 15-year-old daughter's boyfriend spend the night so they can have sex. Even I would say that's a lot to expect of yourself AND your Mom. If she insists that you should not be having sex, you need to accept that's what she wants you to do. Anything other than abstinence will damage your relationship. If she understands that you may occasionally have sex with your boyfriend but that you'll be careful it might be more realistic and healthier for everyone involved.

Lastly, being curious about sex at your age is normal. Thinking that having sex makes you cool, more attractive to guys, or grown up isn't. You can't tie up your self worth with if you "put out" or not. You are lovely because you are you. You're life is precious and special. Your sex life is developing just like you are and that's healthy. If it's ever a responsibility you can't manage, there is help hopefully from your family, but if not then seek out trained professionals.

maybe remind her that she set a bad example - if she wanted you to not engage in that stuff, then she should've never bought your bro condoms, and she should've never let your bf stay over weekends - all you can do is explain to her that you're both being careful - but you should also think about a more reliable form of birth control - maybe if your mom's open minded enough she'd let you go get on pills - just try to be as responsible and informed as possible when you have "the talk" so she sees that you weighed the consequences of what you did.

Not sure there is much you can do now.

Maybe you should have a proper chat with your mum and let her know that you are being sensible, embarrassing i know but i am sure it might put her at rest.

I am sure she is just slightly upset her little girl is growing up so quickly, she will come around though!

for a second i thought you were one of my friends >.<

well you should get on birth controll and still use condoms if yu wana keep having sex with him.

with your mom. sit down and tell her your sorry for what you have done but you love him. and your 15. we all make mistakes. but she has to realize she did things at ur age just like you do.

What the CRAP were you even doing having sex to begin with?? You're 15 years old!! You're still a baby!!