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Should I ask him if he's still interested?

I met this guy through a friend about a year ago, but moved away shortly after, so we've been talking online since then. I saw him while he visited the area I moved to a few weeks ago, and we went out and had some fun. But I'm starting to get the feeling he's no longer interested in me - should I come right out and ask? I don't want it to seem like I'm making more out of our chatting than it is...I don't have a huge amount of experience in situations like this, so I'm not really sure what would be appropriate to just come out and say and/or ask.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    In all my experience, typically if a guy is interested, you KNOW. He'll make a BIG effort to call, hang out multiple times, make future plans to hang out. Every time I had doubt about if he liked me, it always turned out that he didn't or was no longer interested. Your women's intuition is always right. There's nothing wrong with being direct and asking him, but if I were you I wouldn't. Instead i would gage how he acted the time you went out for fun. Is HE messaging you online or are you messaging him? Why not first say something like, "wow, i really want to go see this movie this weekend"...any smart and interested guy would say, HEY LETS GO TOGETHER!

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