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Zoie asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

well i'm kinda a quiet typish girl and people usually like jolly and high spirited type girls................?

how can i be more like that cause i want to make new friends

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Easy just be more high spirited and jolly. When it comes to making friends you have to be nice and social. Be your self butt in a happy way. Don't push it thow. Your right if you are quiet, shy and scared to be social then your not going to make allot of new friends overcome your shyness and be happy allot more think about happy and positive thing's. Think f the glass half full not empty! Hope it all works out for you!

  • 1 decade ago

    You don't have to be a certain type of girl to be liked,

    As cliche as it sounds you just have to be yourself..

    Those jolly high spirited girls are just being themselves and not holding back, thats why there happy.

    Try not to care to much about what people like, or how your acting.

    Just be yourself and do what makes you you and i promise you will make friends.

    Just be nice, and talk and people will talk back.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm quiet type of girl too, especially around new people who i don't know.. and alot of people say im too quiet, boring, too serious etc and it's lessened my chances of meeting people coz of this reason, and it does get to me and affect me.. but i wouldn't wanna change myself to please others. I am who i am, and you are who you are. Just be yourself, and if people are genuine and wanna get to know you, then they will make the effort. I see girls who are quiet, keep to themselves in social situations and i don't think much of it.. it's actually quite nice and comforting to see.. i have friends who are like that - it's just a shame i don't hang out with them... im always around roudy outgoing loud people... and then i easily become the quiet one.

    I am high spirited, fun, otugoing, funny, loud... but only to few people and people i feel comfortable around

    Maybe get drunk? lol alcohol always makes me loosen up and have more fun..though its a bad way to go about it... it's how i go about things. but i also realised that too, people will be liking me only my drunk side.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You seem the same as me :) For ages a wanted to try to change myself to suit other people but what I realised was that, if you change yourself and get new friends, they're not gonna like you for you, they will like you for the person your trying to be.

    That probably doesn't make any sense lol but just be yourself and you will find the friends you make will have things in common with you. You won't have to try with them :)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ok first i was all kinds of shy then i met these friends of mine and holly crap they are crazy as heck and now im likke tht i could care less what people think of me now and im just being crazy n jolly and full of energy ...and people actully likke me now lol ...jst release your self into the world ,but dont do any thing tht you will regret you kno ???? welll i rest ma case lol :D b funnie and yall see tht people will start to come to you it just take a lil time :)

    hope this help !! :)

    tacos !!!!!!!!! lol seee

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