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which marriage style do you prefer?

there a couple who take it too seriously ... like they should act responsible as much as they can ... the way they talk and dress and everything change ... they simply tries to be an adults ... while they are at their early 20s

and another type ... the one who try to be youth forever ... they just look and live like they are still lovers ..

i dont know how to explain it .. but you probably know these 2 kinds of married couples

i dont say that anyone of them is wrong .. i just want to know which one do you prefer ,, ,

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egy - guy : this is the PERFECT answer .... ana kont mstni 7d y2ol el klma deh blzat ... you ll get more serious by growing older ....

life shouldnt be taking so seriously ... if you are young .. keep being young .. until life transforms you to another level ... just trying to be something you are not makes you lose the pleasure of what you should be ..

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Just act like what you're , act your age , and u'll get more serious by growing older , im 21 and married , i act my age , marraige only added more feel of responsibility . Changed nothing of being ( sees ) lol just kidding :-p , seriously , changed nothing of being young and acting my age , just added responsibility .

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The 2nd type b/c I'm more of the carefree, live life, fun, travel kind of person. It's just my personality. I hate acting like an adult b/c I'm still a teen and Idk it's just not me lol. I do dress nice and I do talk really well when I need too, but most of the time i'm like pretty calm, relaxed, chill haha. This is why I want a really funny yet mature guy b/c I like to laugh and have fun and I'm not that mature yet so he has to be so it's a balance.

    A balance is good.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Marriage = responsibility whether the couple wanted it or not so I guess acting responsible isn't much of a choice. But acting responsible 7aga & trying to be adults 7aga tania, the day one gets married one assumes a position, not entirely used to, which compels one to act like an adult for both of their sake (be3'ad elnazar 3an el exceptions elly mosh bet3raf te-act like adults) Trying to be an adult ba2a sounds a bit fake or a bit exaggerated, ya3ny I mean en elmas2olya we being an adult dah beygy naturally elwa7ed mosh me7tg to try to be an adult wala 7aga...As for the other type of couples fa I think it shouldn't be separated from the first one in terms of "live like they're still lovers" or "trying to be youth forever" As long as they love one another & they appreciate the kind of life they're having together, there's no shame in wanting to feel young forever :D BUT within the limits of their responsibilities.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think they should act like respectful adults, even if they are in there early 20s, but when they are out on holidays or just having fun with friends and family then they can act like youth even if they are old and grey

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  • 1 decade ago

    YOUNG forever! Age is just a number & youth is in the heart..

    What is life without being madly in love & taking it all in? Fun is NOT overrated & love is NOT overrated.. try it once & you won't be able to live without it..

    If I was asked to live "responsibly" & "act" as an adult I'd rather kill myself than be in that type of relationship!

    I talked alot but I prefer a life with LIFE in it!

  • micho
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I agree with the first style of the person who tries to act more adult and think like an adult which takes more resonsibility regarding spouse life issue in the future and raising their own family in good mannars.

    no one gonna live forever youth , one day or another u will become older and only ur good personality stays with you.

  • Passio
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Yeah I know a lot of people like that.

    They're both bad, and I think they should dress as how old they are.

    But I hate more the ones who dress younger.

  • 1 decade ago

    be youth forever and act responsibile.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I'm sorry, there must be something wrong with me because i didn't quite get your question.

  • 1 decade ago

    forever young

    i and my girlfriend act like kids .. and we like it :)

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