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My gf and her purity ring, what do I do?
Okay look, I know exactly what the ring symbolizes and all but there's something that I need to address here. Her and I get into extremely heated make out sessions, rolling all over the place ect. Her and I have so much passion for each other and we enjoy holding each other and looking into each others eyes for long periods of time. Sometimes I feel like it's gonna happen while we are making out.
I'm Christian and I fully respect the ring, but sometimes I get the feeling that if a couple has so much passion for one another why not take it to the next step and make love? I'm currently going through that feeling again and to be honest, I feel kind of ashamed of myself because my personal values and religion tell me to respect the fact that she wants to wait, and I do, but my heart is telling me otherwise.
In no way am I the kind of guy that is after sex. Hell, I searched for 4 years of my teenage life to find the right girl for me, if that isn't proving that I care for the girl with my heart and soul, then I don't know what is.
Any suggestions on how to rid of this feeling?
What should I do concerning sex? Her and I have talked about it, but more in general not pertaining to our relationship.
I'm extremely lost in my already very confusing life, any help is greatly appreciated.
2 Answers
- ?Lv 410 years agoFavorite Answer
Im definitely no Christian so i can't empathize with you in that way but there are a few things i'd like to point out
1 im all for having sex when you are in love. If you are really as in love as you say you are, you should do it.
2 why is this girl wearing a purity ring if she's getting heated up with you. Being a virgin is not the only thing that makes you "pure"
- Anonymous10 years ago
If you feel that strongly for her, then just do it! Use a condom of course but still!