How can I become sexually attracted to this girl?

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I really like this girl and she really likes me and it's all good, but there's only one problem. She's kinda big, and I don't care how shallow it is, but it's impossible for me to be turned on by that.
I know that looks aren't important and it's good that I like her for who she is, but sooner or later I'm going to have to perform and I just don't know what I'm going to do.
The last thing I want to do is have to explain that I can't sleep with her because she's too fat.

Persy · Accepted Answer

Hey Iz C=
I think if your feelings for her are strong enough you'll be able to overlook certain things/features/etc. when you two are in intimate relations. If, however, you can't perform, I believe the best thing for you to say is "I'm not ready" which would give you time to get comfortable with the way things are.
I hope I helped, good luck with the girl C=

Cass W. · Answer

If the physical aspect of the relationship is important to you, than you should be physically attracted to the person you are with. Everyone has something they aren't comfortable with, and you shouldn't have to force yourself into something you don't want. Maybe it is best for the two of you to remain friends. You're happiness is what should be most important to you.

? · Answer

It's not shallow at all... looks are important.  You can't force yourself to be physically attracted to someone.  If it isn't there it isn't there.

All Of the Above · Answer

Well you. deserve to have the full package. I don't think that you are shallow at all.

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How can I become sexually attracted to this girl?

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