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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 10 years ago

What Do I do? im soo lost!! Help! 10 points?

Please no smartass answers thanks:)

well, to start off i am a LOT different from people my age here is why

.. The Music I listen to- The Beatles, The Doors, Janis Joplin, The Rolling stones, Nirvana, alice in chains, Blind Melon, guns n roses Jimi Hendrix..and many bands related to them

what THEY LISTEN TO: Lady Gaga, wiz khalifia, Lil wayne, Bruno Mars Kesha

im pretty ugly to brown/ blonde hair 5'6(132 pounds) (I have smooth baby's skin but I only have little acne.)Big Blue light green eyes, kinda like Jim Morrison but his were wayy prettier lol white teeth with a small gap. long skinny nose.i(m 14 year old girl btw)

I read a lot of books on the musicians too sometimes so i can learn from them im just interested learning about other peoples lives and how thing were for them lol. My cousin was calling Janis Joplin a ****** for no reason. I just said I read a book on her. and then calls her sister who wrote it a ****** also and Janis was very good at heart and I told him that also and"hes like ohhh she is just making her sister look good"she is a *****! and he is 14 and Janis died b4 we were born just like many other musicians i like i like them for them and their music its really awesome!

I dont act all gangster and stuff like most of the kids at my school ( i am going to high school next year so hopeful there will be new people but ive lost hope in good people, I am single have no boyfriend most guys will never want me and if they do its just to sleep with me and thats it. I will NEER FIND ANYone that will truly love me:( girls mostly hate me and make fun of me thinkiing i am guy even though I have long hair and wear girly type clothing and makeup also, exept i wear bands tee sometimes thats it. and my dad left me and my mom dosent rly love me sometimesI question why I was ever born! If People ******** hate me sooo muchh, I was just put on earth to be kicked a spat on sometimes I wish someone could just be here for me and love me but i know thats never gonna happen. at least I get a feeling im going to die early im glad soo i dont have to live on this sick ****** life ive been living in.

Ive been mentally and physically abused by my mother ever since i can remember. and its not going to stop ever shes is never proud of me even though i get good grades and stay out of trouble. ive been to a conculor about the verbal abuse because I was caught crying at school and she said just ignore her( haha great advice like I can do that and no one esle in my family really likes meexceptt my little cousins because usually little kids like anybody and everything lol

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  • 10 years ago
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    if u dont like like ur family,try to stay away from them like boarding school like that.the problem is that u think u r alone.coz u r different,coz u dont listen to any popshi* like other people of ur age.dont u hav gud frnds?and u hav lots of interest in rock music.so u try to make friends who have the same taste in music like urs. Try to learn any musical instrument,and cover ur favourate musician/band and it ll help you from boredom.read every article abt musicians,their biography etc.concentrate to do what u like.it worked for me when i was a teenager.nw i have my friends who like my music,i'm staying with them.i like my family,but i feel much better with my friends.

    and abt boyfriends:dont be sad.u ll find the right guy someday,i mean u r not that much old,only 14 and its a matter of time.

    Hope this helps

  • 10 years ago

    It sounds like you have a lot going on in your life right now. I am also a 14 year old girl and about to enter high school as well. And quite frankly i don't think there is anything wrong with being different. I think its great that you like the Beatles, The Doors, and the Rolling Stones! And that you like to read! i think reading is a great thing you can escape from the world for a little while and just get lost in words. I think you need to find something positive in your life, and gain a little more self confidence. You need you be proud of our self! You sound like a great person who unfortunately is going through abuse and the feeling of not being loved and being bullied at school, but from my own personal experience, as weird as this sounds going through experiences like these will make you a better person, it will teach you how to treat others and make you a stronger person. You know not to physically or verbally abuse people because it hurts, your and you're going to be able to give advise to people that have been through something similar, and you will also be able to live a life you want to live and be able to excel in life! Be proud of yourself, and love who you are!

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    5 years ago

    God looks at the condition of your heart, not the condition of your body, the makeup and clothes you where, or even the music you listen to. I'm kinda partial to Iron Maiden. Marilyn Manson is a bit waked, in my option. But then that's just what it is, my opinion. Music is music. Listen to whatever inspires you. I'm glad that your not cutting yourself. It's bad for your health, and it brakes down your attitude for life. Christianity is a relationship with a living God based on faith. If you turn from your sins and confess Jesus as Lord and saviour, you shall be saved. If you do this, and believe, then don't worry about hell. Jesus already saved you from that. The devil is just lying to you.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    You are facing a difficult situation. I suggest you seek pro advice. For now can i offer the this: regard life as a personal challenge. Dont judge yourself, others or life. You need to make drastic changes in your life. Change how you feel about yourself and others. Feelings can be changed. For example your mother may not change but you can change how you respond to her behaviour. Take responsibility over every choice you make, regardless of the circumstance. Change your friends. Do not place yourself in any situation where you may attract negative attention. This in other cultures is defined as the art of being invisible in the middle of a busy highway.

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  • 10 years ago

    Your music is win, don't ever listen to what others listen, pop culture and rap is crap. (rhymes? lol).

    OK, so... you like Metal and Rock? Gimme a High Five. :P

    Follow Buddha's Teachings, Meditate on Emptiness, try to put yourself in balnce to this universe so you can get a peace of mind.

    as with your mother, talk to her, be nice to her, talk when you both are in a good mood, this will make the positive energy work for you. If You think that it is Satanic music which gives you bad Karma then change it. there are pretty peaceful chants in Rock too.

    Add me if you want to. I am always looking for friends who are not assholes. :P

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