I need advice on a Cancer man From cancer men (October 11,1993) Im a Libra women and His DOB is July2,1990?

I just wanted some advice on a relationship that i have been in for almost 3 years. I understand that most people say that Libra and Cancer aren't a good match i Have to say other because my closest Best friend is a cancer Born July 6th 1992 and we get along great. been best friends for almost 6years now... But this man I've been messing around with him since i was 13/14 years of age and he was then 17 ! He was my first time and everything ... Unfortunately he ended leaving town for about 2years and i hadn't seen him in a long time. But then in the summer of 2010 ( my 10th grade year ) he had come back. and we went right back to how things were at first. i was at his house almost everyday in the summer and we spent a lot of time together yes we did have A LOT of intercourse but he didn't ever act any different to me though. In the Fall ( my Junior year ) he started to act a little odd. and i do understand that cancers tend to have these emotional roller coasters and i was just totally appalled at the sudden change of his behavior sooo through the beginning of my junior year to the end we hadn't got along at all ! But before he left to move to Miami Florida i saw him a couple blocks from his house . I was accompanied by my Best friend/Sister the Cancer girl : and he stopped me and wanted to talk to me. I mean he spoke first and everything. and then he was just staring at me all hard This was the day before his birthday. we talked and he apologized to me for how bad he had been treating me and that he wanted us to alteast remain friends. I did agree !

I then started to conversate with him on the phone with him all the time. and he came back home on Thanksgiving and we were together then for about 2 days then he had to go spend time with his son. Just recently we talked on the phone with eachother all night long. during that phone conversation he expressed to me how much he had missed me. He then told me that the reason he treated me so badly was because he was young and didn't know any other way to express his feelings to me. and one thing he told me was that he loved me and wanted to marry me which left me astonished ! i didn't know what to say to that . Even though i am completely in love with him but i just don't want to fall for words i want to make sure they are real. so

Boys can you tell me after reading all of this :

-DO YOU THINK THAT HE LOVES ME REALLY

- HOW SINCERE IS HE BEING WITH ME

-AND ANY OTHER ADVICE YOU HAVE FOR ME !!!!!

OH IF IT HELPS HERE IS OUR BIRTH CHARTS :

MINE: LIBRA BORN OCTOBER 11 1993 3:00PM SAN FRANCISCO CA

-Sin in Libra

-Moon in Leo

-Mercury in Scorpio

-Venus in Virgo

-Mars in Scorpio

-Jupiter in Libra

-Saturn in Aquarius

-Uranus in Capricorn

-Neptune in Capricorn

-Pluto in Scorpio

THIS IS HIS BIRTH CHART: JULY 2,1990

( im not sure of th etime and place so i eneterd 12:00am)

-sun in cancer

-Moon in Scorpio

-Mercury in Cancer

-Venus in Gemini

-Mars in Aries

-Jupiter in Cancer

-Saturn in Capricorn

-Pluto in Scorpio