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I don't seem to care about girls anymore...?

I have plenty of chances to talk to girls and get to know them better, but I always seem to back off the idea and just do me. It's not that im too shy to say something. I'm a handsome guy and ive been told this, but I just don't make girls a priority like some guys do. I lack the motivation to actually want to make a move on them and it's weird because I sometimes I'll be by myself and all I think about is the girls I could have said more to and made them interested or made a move so to say. When the action finally comes around I just won't. Why do I feel this way??

Update:

It's not my manhood that is hurt here you moron move on to the next one.

Update 2:

20 Ive dated a couple girls which I didn't treat to well and the last one I dated kinda left me jaded for a lil while.

Update 3:

Haha I'll make this clear! I like girls.

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    Lv 5
    10 years ago
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    You just don't want a girlfriend. It's normal, I don't really want a girlfriend (or boyfriend for that matter) anytime soon, but I still think about having one, but in the end I don't want one.

  • 10 years ago

    I'm same the way right now. I don't know if I want to date anyone whether it's a girl or a guy. I think I just want to focus on myself as opposed to "chasing" someone. Probably that's what you feel? Being single is not that bad.. don't worry, you're not the only..

    but, do you like guys then?

  • 6 years ago

    No biggy bro, I spend 90% of my time doing me crap, I hate chick drama and BS, so just don't do relationships just nail them as they come and stay single, none of them are worth the trouble :P and they all give it away these days.

  • 10 years ago

    You are the product of a feminized society that has suppressed (and even despised) your manhood.

    Like most men, your merely confused since you have to learn what it is to be a man all by yourself.

    When you gain the confidence, and as women age, they will be coming after you and your problem will take a complete 180-degree shift.

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  • 10 years ago

    How old are you? Are you attracted to women? And/or are you attracted to men?

    You seem to be averse to a relationship of any kind. Dating someone and having fun is

    ok to do, and that does not put you into a relationship situation. Relax, and have fun!!!

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