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Online Dating: what is this woman's agenda?
Earlier this year I joined an online dating website. I met a separated mother of two who seemed to like me instantly.
However, five times now she has shown an intense interest in me - then out of the blue ignores my messages - but then re-appears as if nothing had happened. When challenged on why, she gets hurt and much confirms her interest in me. Then the cycle repeats itself!
Can anyone guess what her agenda is please?
Could she have confidence issues? What about the possibility of a personality disorder, say 'Histrionic' PD? Or is this, in the reader's experience, common online?
Note we are both in our 40s. Also, she is a real person, though there are many 'spambots' and 'golddiggers' on the site.
I have given her a final ultimatium; I just cannot spend any more emotion or time on this woman.
Thanks in anticipation.
6 Answers
- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
2 kids? reckon this means she doesnt have the time to sit around all day and respond to messages.
surely youre not that old to remember how to date normally? get her number, give her a shout if shes not interested move on.
Think thats how it went when I was a teenager
- Anonymous10 years ago
She's likely married or attached by the looks of it. It's "meet up or give up" if you want things to stay real on those sites. If she is too far away for that, then it's doomed anyway.
Another explanation is she is getting all kinds of attention and it could also be that's all she wants ~ 20 guys flitting around her.
You know its really hard to guess, but that's my top two. And It's not the fact it's on line, i mean weirdos on line are also weirdos in real life. They just don't have to be polite and the whole pool is huge compared to a bar on a Saturday night.
In the end, does it really matter "why"? All that matters is she is inconsiderate on line and so likely to be twice as much so in the flesh. i think calling it off is a good idea. Being alone is way better than being with someone that flighty.
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- Anonymous10 years ago
How can someone ' ignore you out of the blue' ? The context of that sentence makes absolutely no sense. It's just a suggestion but perhaps she thought you were a bit thick?
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- 10 years ago
You are probably the guy she flirts with when she is bored and has extra time to spare. I'd say move on and not waste any more time on this girl.
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