My birhtday was today and my wife gave me a sleep in , arranged me to go to the races?

Once she smartens up and dumps you as then ungrateful wretch of a loutish hubbie you are, do you think she'd mind if I sent her a note? You just need to look in the mirror for the very definition of the word "self-centered".

Good Lord, buddy, what did you expect? A carful of clowns and a cake with a naked lady jumping out of it? I'd say she gave you a lovely and well-planned day. You're lucky as all get out, cuz there are a lot of people on here crying cuz they didn't even get a card. Sorry you didn't get that Lamborghini you were expecting, maybe next year. Sheesh. At what point do you think she was neglectful????? REALLY? I would LOVE to know.

honestly, this kind of thing happens, recently i had my birthday and my family could not make it for various reasons, so it was friends only. but i didn't mind, i know it was not out of lack of love on their part. just give your wife a break, i mean it not easy to get up for a 7am shift. i know, i have to do this once.

Yeah, you're being ungrateful. She didn't have to get you anything, but she did because she's your wife and she loves you. Grow up.

Yes i would think its ungrateful of you. I always heard its the thought that counts.

you are a pig to think that was not enough.

She should leave you and let you fend for yourself.