Do you think she would be my friend?

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I had an affair with a married woman; and yes, I know it was wrong.  Anyway, this woman remarried almost 5 years later, and she did not divorce her first husband because of me.  This was a failing marriage because he was a mamas boy who did what mama wanted and the wife had no voice in any matter.  Well, I found her on a social network under her new husband's last name, and she has been married with her new husband for 6 years.  Do you think she would be friends with me if I contacted her, or would she get scared and freak out?  We had no problems, but the distance kept us apart.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'd say she'd kind of be freaked out. No offense, but being your friend and talking to you would be a ton of guilt hanging over her head.

? · Answer

honestly, she probably would.. but i don't think it would be in your best interest.

you need to move on and find someone else, even if you think, 'well i don't plan on a relationship, just want to stay friends and keep in touch.'

you never know if old feelings will spark, so to answer you're question yes she would probably add you, but it's not a good idea.

Anonymous · Answer

She'd be a good friend. Talk about your present life and how you two missed being together. If you haven't missed her then at least pretend

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think she'll be freaked.
Just tell her how you want to know if she's alright etc..

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Do you think she would be my friend?

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