I let men walk all over me.?

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Thing is I was always ugly in high school & never got any attention from any guys. So when I did get attention I would crave it & put up with a lot of ****. I'd let men walk all over me, insult me and still i'd come running back and act like what they did was fine. Anyway I'm better looking now as I gym it and lost some weight & acne..BUT I still do the same **** and put up with this ONE guy who is a loser and is rude to me all the time. I hate him but he gives me attention (even sexist attention sometimes) like its pretty obvious he likes me but its more like a 'looks' like rather then personality. I want the strength to stop talking to him and getting into heated discussions with him. I feel like I'm just worsening my self-esteem the more i talk to him. I think its prolly got something to do with not having a stable male figure ever in my life (father) that makes me crave any male attention. 

but thats another story, just now I want to be able to avoid talking to him and having him in my life (this is all done via facebook btw) Thanks!

Tiffany · Accepted Answer

Come on now girl have some respect for yourself. If you don't respect yourself NO ONE else will. I don't have a father either but I refuse to let a man do me like that. A women should be treated like the queen she is. You don't need any attention from any disrespectful man.! Love yourself first then you will allow the right man to love you they way your suppose to be love. have some confidence in yourself. Put on ya best outfit & go out. Make yourself feel good. You shouldn't let no man make you feel so low.

Al · Answer

You reality enjoy the treatment you receive that why you keep going back for more abuse because that is your sexual fantasy.

Individuals especially women has all kind of fantasy the situation is your and all hear in your question is you making excuses. first you ned to be honest with your self because you can walk away when your ready.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him you've changed and if he keeps treating you like **** you'll dump his ***.... If he laughs dump him watch him come crawling back (trust me he will) then say you're over him and you like someone else who loves you for who you are... You are a woman...You are strong and you can bounce back from anything... Tell him that!
Good luck and give him a punch for me, eh? lol :)

veronaragazza · Answer

Aww! You sound so sweet and smart!. I know a lot of people who have done online dating and had tons of fun! Maybe that could be a distraction?

Leda B · Answer

no duh its just looks, you obviously have the personality of a doormat. guys will never respect you if you act like that, most of them will get bored of the yes master routine and the rest will use you and leave. grow a pair of balls, seriously, when you are strong you will get the right kind of male attention. instead of pity and taking advantage of, it will be admiration and respect. im so sick of women who act like 2nd class citizens for men. please stand up for yourself, be your own role model.

? · Answer

I'm going through the same thing.

Cate · Answer

girl you deserve way better. just dropp him ad continue with ur normal life and i promise you ur gonna meet mr. right.

? · Answer

just walk right to him and tell him to backoff , if he hits u, hit him back. oh and please don't call your self ugly cause no one in the world is ugly, and don't let people judge u

Joe Schmo · Answer

give me your number

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