My bf wants to kill himself! Idk what to do?

sex and alcohol won't help a suicidal teenager. He needs professional help NOW. Tell his parents you are scared that he might hurt himself, and tell them you will call for help if they don't. He needs to be seen by a doctor today. Tell him very calmly that you care about him, that you are frightened, and that you are going to his parents to try and get him some help. then do it. Either his regular doctor or a local ER will know what to do.

You just posted this same question not two hours ago. There were some decent answers on there that would apply to your situation. Maybe not what you want to hear, but most solutions rarely are.

At that age, the problem is probably minor; and he's being over dramatic with his solution. All you can do is ask him If he's doing okay. If he asks why, tell him what you heard his sister say. If he doesn't want to talk about it, you aren't going to force it from him. Then you will put the relationship in jeopardy. Just let him know your there if he ever wants to talk about it; and just watch his behavior. Also, let them know that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. It can never be undone, and is the most selfish thing a person can do. I wouldn't talk about that unless he starts showing major depression and talks more openly about suicide.

First find a psychologist!!!! He needs help from professionals, also he must change he's lifestyle, meaning;

1. Eat healthy foods foods for the brain & stop consuming junk foods that are bad for our mental health.

2. Exercise everyday! Which releases endorphins that are a 'feel good' chemicals (it's proven to work same as antidepressants)

3. Sleep at least 8-9 hrs every night.

Regarding sex, that has nothing to do with suicide, also stay away from alcohol, it could cause an addiction at this diffucult moment.

Tell him he's important and that he needs to be very strong and be willing to change.

Also, remind him that everybody goes through rough times but they go away that's life, it's hard but beautiful!

Pray to God for his recovery/healing. ,

With faith all is possible!

God bless him and hope all will get better!

Sex and wine are not the answer as you probably figured out by now. Can you tell his parents you are concerned about him? I think that is the best thing to do as you are only 15. ( I am sorry since I know you think you are mature but you are very young and this is most serious). Do not talk to his sister about it anymore, only his parents or your parents or an adult in authority. If you could have helped him you already would have during the past two years. In fact you need to distance yourself mentally and detach because the person you are having sex with needs professional help.

Ask about his suicidal thoughts. Know the warning signs. Look for any outward sign that shows a deviation from his usual self. When the warning signs are present, it is imperative to ask him directly; “Are you thinking about killing yourself”?

Care for him by understanding that he may be in pain. Active listening may produce relief. Calmly control the situation: do not use force. Take action by removing any lethal means, such as weapons or pills. Important to understand with what, where, and when he plans to kill himself or herself. The fact he acknowledges his or her plans generally suggests that they are accepting help.

If your battle buddy tells you his plan, try to determine what steps he or she planned to take in order to carry out the event

What were his preparations for dying (e.g., giving away personal possessions)? Find out the timing and location of the suicidal plan and the lethality of method. Ask about rehearsal behaviors (e.g., tying noose, loading gun)

Explore ambivalence; ask your battle buddy, specifically, about his reasons to die versus the reasons to live

Determine his access to lethal methods, including firearms. If he is armed, say, “Let me unload the weapon and keep it safe for you while we talk”

Escort him immediately to parents or behavioral health profession. Don’t keep his suicidal behavior a secret. Adopting an attitude that you are going to help him will save his life. Stay with him until he receives appropriate help. Don’t leave him alone. Being there for him will make the difference.

Be available and supportive . Reassure him that you will be by his side no matter what. Locate help ASAP. Know where to get professional help from resources. Whatever you do, be sure to secure help and support for your battle buddy!!

well first of all, if you do choose to talk to him about it then you dont want to come one strong or just be hell bent on wringing his neck for an answer, be nice and talk gently, imagine yourself talking to jesus in the flesh, soft toned, slightly worried, and trying your best to please him with your words. i mean be mean and angry and say something like "what the hell is wrong with you, how could you even think of something like that" then you might as well be throwing gasoline on the fire, you want him to see reasons to stay in the world not reasons to get out of it. first you have to know where to start it, if you can get a small subject going about it like say even asking him what he thinks about certain things or hes been acting weird lately and whats bothering him. then just slowly ease him up to it until he almost spills the beans on the suicide attempts himself. try to push your way in yourself and the first thing he will probably think if he is serious about it is, "why cant you mind your own business, let me live my life and you live yours, i dont want any help ive already tried everything and nothing works, and all that blah blah blah". so now once you get into the subject nice and deep you gotta convince him of reasons to not want to commit suicide. "life has so much to live for like, traveling, getting married eventually, starting a family and watching them grow up, tell him he may have a daughter or son or both in the future and if he does this then hes deleting his own future children from existence in a way. just let him know you love him and be kind and easy going about it, dont freak out and smack him around or cuss at him or anything like that, it could be things similar to the fact of abuse or people missunderstanding him that led him to suicide in the first place.

Are you sexually lively along with your BF, ought to or no longer that's basically a plot to get him laid. you recognize human beings on anti depressants are consistently going to be on them for existence, and statically will end their very own existence of their 30's or 40's. i think of at this element you ought to be extra in touch approximately what you go with, do you go with a codependent BF for something of his existence for an indeterminate quantity of time. The question isn't plenty are you able to handle that yet do you prefer to. all of us have this romantic concept that they are quite worth it, yet because of the fact the years pass by making use of we finally end up hating them and in no way undergo in recommendations what it replaced into we/you fell in love with. Do you desire to end your relationship now or later as he sucks the existence blood out of you and makes you develop into cynical of yet another.

Suicide hotline now

he needs to see a profetional you and his sister go with him

hes either that selfish or wants attention. redflag!