Should you be suspicious if your g/f is away on a business trip and doesn't want you to call her?

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She wants me to text her before i call, but i never get an answer. He never hears her fone or is somewhere ike the toilet and never sees the text. Its always a rushed conversation when we do talk. The expense is the excuse.I'm getting fed up feeling as if i'm in the wrong to want to talk to her. Its like i'm interfering with her fun. I only call when the business part of the day is over. Another excuse for cutting the calls short is  the girl she is sharing the room with wants to sleep. Am i wrong to be thinking this way?

Athene · Accepted Answer

Maybe she feels inhibited talking in front of someone else? My sister is all funny like this when I try to call her at work, because the fact her colleagues can hear her conversation makes her practically have a breakdown!

When I used to go on lots of business trips I kept conversations short because I would get into a hyped up mood and didn't feel relaxed enough to have a nice, cosy boyfriendy conversation. I prefered to just check all was OK and then save all my anecdotes for when I got home. 

I think you'll get a better idea when she returns, and you can pay careful attention to how she talks about what she did, how open she is and how much detail she gives you. Watch carefully for if she makes eye contact or if she seems shifty.

m · Answer

If I were in your shoes, I sure would be!

Girls like romance!  The expense is a lame excuse because you could call her hotel room directly or you could have long texting chats.

Yep.  Something doesn't smell right here.  Pay attention to your gut because YOU deserve someone who wants to hear from you and spend time with you. So go find that kind of girl, marry her and have a happy life!

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Should you be suspicious if your g/f is away on a business trip and doesn't want you to call her?

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