Can you help me with my sexuality?

well u dont HAVE to date both.

They're right -- denying your sexuality is unhealthy. You might just be going through a bi-curious phase that will wear off in time. But if you truly are bisexual, you need to learn to accept that and be proud of who you are.

If you need help determining and coming to terms with your sexual identity, discuss your issues with your school counselor or another neutral professional counselor. But don't rush to label yourself -- and don't rush into any sexual or otherwise serious relationships you aren't ready for! You've got your whole life ahead of you to determine exactly what your sexual orientation is and what you want out of life and find your true Mr. or Ms. Right, so try not to sweat it too much!

Just accept your sexuality and don't beat yourself up about it.

I'm not sure how old you are but if you're young you don't have to be dating or active with both genders all the time.

You have to date a man and have your first with a man too girl then if you still like girls is another story go out with a guy

If people around you accept you I don't see how it is making your life hard. Just think you are blessed with liking both males and females, double the possibilities :P

Yes i could. This is what i ended up doing if your concerned with labeling yourself. Figure out which sex you would be more happy with having an emotional attachment to not just a sexual one and thats your decision.

How is it making life hard?

Best of both worlds! If you like them both you like them both it's that simple, whether or not you want people to know is a completely different thing.

Well I know you might not wanna hear it but you can't just say you don't wanna be bisexual and you won't be. you can't control it, but if you want someone to talk to theres this organization that helps people questioning or anyone in this section, just email lgbt.help@live.com

and they can help you further

Party til your ovaries fall out

There, there..