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really annoyed with people touching/ staring at my belly?

I'm only 14 weeks but its starting to show. My boyfriends family is always trying to see my belly or touch it. It REALLy gets me so angry, I have no idea why but I just find it annoying. I don't feel pregnant I feel like I'm just gaining weight and I just don't like to be stared at. Any advise? Am I the only one with this problem? I don't want to be rude but I just can't take it anymore.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    Buy one of those shirts that says "yes, I'm pregnant, it's a __ No, you can't touch my belly!"

  • 10 years ago

    I feel like this is the way it always is for women when they are pregnant. Then once u have ur baby everyone will be staring at him and wanting to touch him. I understand why u would find it annoying but I dont think u can stop it without being a little rude. U can ask them to stop...that's about it. Good luck.

  • 10 years ago

    I feel the same way. I only feel comfortable if my husband touches it too. since some people can;t resist getting grabby with pregnant bellies. They really should ask because normally you would never just go up and touch someones belly but for whatever reason people forget about boundaries when your pregnant. The way I've handled it is to either turn when someone reaches out and put my hands on my belly or I will touch their belly back. They usually get the message, especially when I touch their belly back and it leaves them with this confuses priceless look on their faces.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Definitely let people know how you're feeling. If you don't like being touch try and tell them in a way that's not offensive. People should respect that though because if you weren't pregnant that would just be awkward...When people try to rub your belly say you're feeling nauseous and don't feel like being touched. You're pregnant they should understand.

    As for the staring people will think you're rude if you tell them to stop staring at you. I would just ignore that part and be grateful for the attention even if it is a bit overwhelming.

  • 10 years ago

    I'm 15 weeks and im showing too. Idk i LOVE my belly being touched but when strangers like look at me and stuff it gets me feeling really fat and i cant stand it. I feel really uncomfortable. Maybe your just not ok with showing that much affection there is nothing wrong with that, the next time they do it, just say hey, its realy hot, and im really uncomfortable, could you not do that please? Its not a big deal :)

    Source(s): 17 and 15 weeks pregnant
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    It really annoyed me when I was pregnant I ended up snapping at them and telling them to go away it's my baby bump not yours!

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    If it is strangers, I perfectly understand. However, with your boyfriend, there is an issue. If he is indeed the father then he understandably will be excited and this is a good thing. My wife used to make me feel her belly every five seconds. I had to be there for every kick etc...

    I think you have some commitment or other issues that are manifesting themselves.

  • 10 years ago

    It's called personal space. You know they talk about irritability when you are pms-ing. Well consider pms heightened. Try saying this when they come to touch you, " not right now, I don't feel well" or "please don't, not now"

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    no you are not the only person with this problem. most every pregos person i know hates it. but you can say politely can you please not touch me i dont like to be touched.

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