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Why did he get an erection? Is he into me?

My guy friend and i were hanging out at my apt the other night. Its my first place on my own so he came over to keep me company. We were sitting on the sofa pretty close together but not touching. I went a little closer and put my head on his shoulder and thats when i noticed it. He was getting hard. I kinda freaked out! We've been friends for years and have never been into each other like that. I slowly moved away pretending i didnt see it. He just sat there trying to conceal it with a pillow. Now idk how to act around him. Should i ask him about it? Or just forget it? I feel weird now! Could he be into me?

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  • 10 years ago
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    Just forget it. And it has nothing to do with being into you or not.

    It's just that when some guys are not used to female physical contact, they get hard really fast.

    Ask any guy who has a first girlfriend. At first, just holding her hand makes you hard. Then it doesn't anymore. Then kissing her does. Then you get used to it and it stops. And so on and on.

    So since you put your head on his shoulder, he just wasn't used to feminine contact and that was a natural reaction from his body. Whether he likes you or not has nothing to do with it.

  • 10 years ago

    It's hard to say, it has happened to me before in a situation that is almost the same with a girl who frequently would watch movies with me. We were friends at the time and she did like me so it was no big deal. It happened even before I was really into her, but I would say he most likely likes you.

    I would not talk about his erection to him, that would be awkward. I'm guessing you may at least have some feelings for him if you put your head on his shoulder. If so, keep hanging out with him and see where it takes you. Don't get freaked out if he gets another erection this is normal for guys and we can't help it sometimes.

    If you do not like him don't lead him on by initiating close contact.

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    10 years ago

    He might be into u or u looked hot that moment, or also he was just in the mood. If u like him, don't ask him out directly, ask him how he honestly feels about u. U guys could last, u've been friens for years, he knows what u like, and maybe even knows the kinda person u are. Same for u. Since u two know eachother, your relationship should last.

    Source(s): Good luck
  • 10 years ago

    He's probably embarassed. Don't be weird around him because he will feel self-conscious. Guys get erections for many reasons. Don't overthink it. And just because he had an erection doesn't mean he was turned on either. Next time, laugh it off or ignore it.

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  • 10 years ago

    it's usually because men have no control what happens to them downstairs. The body acts on instinct. He probably isn't into you. it might be just the fact that someone of the opposite sex was getting close to him.

  • 10 years ago

    Yeah. If you like him, ask him out, or just kiss him. Kissing him would be better. If not, just forget about it. Maybe it was hormones. We get random ones from time to time.

  • 10 years ago

    What was you wearing? Watching? Doing before that? It all depends on the cirmcumstance. Feel free to email....dodgeit4@yahoo.com so you answer my questions

    Source(s): Me
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    It doesn't necessarilly mean be like u guys get random erection sometimes

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    All guys have primal urges to get with any orrery girl

  • 10 years ago

    Yes.

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