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Manners/Etiquette 101 requirements for a job?
I will be going through an interview next week, however I am not quite confident on how I should address the people interviewing me. So my question is, how do I properly address someone with a title, such as supervisor or manager, and at the same time gain respect? I have always been taught to use "sir" or "ma'am", yet it may bring a controversy. Calling one "sir" or "ma'am" may offend the person because of his or her age. I'm confused! Help! Any helpful websites are appreciated!
Thanks.
- L
6 Answers
- FreesumpinLv 710 years agoFavorite Answer
I'd have no problem addressing the interviewer by the name she/he introduces himself interspersed with a ma'am or sir occasionally.
While they won't judge you favourably by your good manners they sure would if you have bad ones!
Good luck!
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- 10 years ago
I am a salesperson and can tell you that using the word sir does not necessarily get you what you want. it shows that you are used to looking up to others and taking orders rather than perhaps being in charge, if the job is for a managerial position or a sales position then you want people to see you as an equal if you are going to for a cleaning job it will be different, So its a case of dancing according to the tune.
I would suggest a good hand shake no matter what, sit when invited to do so, present yourself clean and shaven clothing should be super clean and pressed and no jewellry other than wedding right and watch. Do not have a mobile switched off. Woman keep make up to a minimum if you have nice legs do not be afraid to show enough as to be pleasing without provocative, even executives will appreciate beauty.
confidence and eye contact, study body language and try to use it, do not sit slouched or laid back.
polite answers and try to expand in a friendly way without prolonging too much. Paint a picture of yourself as busy person who enjoys their work and has some interests, if you can make a connection try to use it, look around the office for clues on things that you can use to your advantage, picutres of family, sporting magazines that kind of thing.but try to introduce them casually so if the boss has lots of kids then you say you come for a big family and your sister has 9 kids who you adore, do not say you have a lots of kids or want them this will be a no no as bosses think this takes you from your work.
- David CLv 510 years ago
When asking for them at the front desk or in email, just call them Mr.... or Ms.... After that, there's really no need to call them sir, ma'am or anything else. Just leave such salutations out of your speech.
- Anonymous5 years ago
Its unhappy you have worked for a company for two decades conversing English and are purely now being asked to income yet another language. Sadder nonetheless which you recognize yet another language yet no longer the the excellent option one. I dont think of this is discrimination, nevertheless. companies ought to pass forward with the situations, and as unfair because it may desire to look, we are residing in a time now the place there are literally hundreds of Spanish conversing skill customers residing between us. i might have finished precisely as you, yet save an open suggestions and stay as in case you have been to die the next day and learn as in case you will stay consistently! good success!
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- 10 years ago
If she is not a ma'am, then she is a miss. Call every one else sir. Try to remember everybody's name and call them mr., mrs.,or ms. "lastname"
- ?Lv 410 years ago
Most people are just cool with their first name - least where I'm from. Or else "Mr.".
I don't think people would be offended due to age with "maam"; they might think you are mocking them though - if they are young..