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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 10 years ago

my dad doesnt trust me?

I'm 15 years old. Im my dads second kid first daughter. he is CRAZY about everything. He has time restrictions on my phone so it tuns off at 7pm. My 11 year old sisters however turns off at ten. He has facebook & myspace blocked on the computer. He thinks I drink and smoke and go around having sex with people(I have done none of the above). Recently I have asked him to change my phone time to the same as my sisters or 9:30. He alawys answers with who do you need to be texting that late.. Im 15, i have friends, I talk to boys and have been waiting on a call from a friend who just got out of foster care. I want to beable to get in touch with him and Im sick of my friends telling me hes crazy or a jerk.. and He is. I dont know what I did to make him think i was such a bad person but im not. How can I get him to trust me more and calm down about everything. Him stressing me out has been causing me some very bad panic attacks latley. I need answers!?

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    my mom is the exact same way, she wouldnt let me shave my legs until i was 14 and i had to convince her! i had more chores she was thinking of letting me shave until i'm 18 wtf! Theyr'e trying to keep us out of the 'big bad world' and my mom doesn't trust me that well either she's always suspicious. It'll get better once im 18 though..and instead of wasting my time fight with her, we've try to make agreements. I mean trust me its not worth fighting with them...it's just not you will always end up losing. i try to please them i mean after all they are my parents and keep school first that's how i deal with it :P i also don't have a FB or myspace but my freind says it sucks and that she has fights on there O-o idk...it's just not worth puting all my time and effort fighting with them, once im 18 ill have more freedom :P try working out...idk i don't like it but it reduces stress.

    And sure they're over protective but in a way...im sorta glad..i mean just think if they weren't i'd probably turn out bad XD lol still i want more freedom :P oh well

    good luck, try to work things out, more chores = more txt time or something like that. :)

  • 10 years ago

    have a talk w. your dad sit him and down and ask him what you did wrong. Maybe because since you are 15 he thinks your just a crazy teenager and once your 11 yr old reaches ur age he might do the same thing. hes just worrying about you.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I'm so sorry about what your going through :( parent can be Soooooo mean to us kids:( I'm 16, almost 17 but I know what your going through. Atleast your a loud to talkto boys lol:) I can't even have a bf... But if say just sit down with your dad and talk to him about it, or like write him a letter and give it to him to read so it's not so ackward if you tell him so he doesn't like yell about it. I feel your pain:( good luck <3

  • 10 years ago

    I think you should sit down and talk with your dad if he doesn't want to talk with you, say it's really important or pull him over and make him sit down. Tell him how you feel and ask him if you could have some freedom.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I feel bad for you, just be honest with him.

    In fact, bring him to the computer and let him read everything you just wrote if you're too shy to say it all to his face, also let him read my comment.

    "YOU ARE AN IDIOT, LET YOUR DAUGHTER BE A NORMAL 15 YEAR OLD GIRL AND STOP TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING SHE DOES, YOUR OVER PROTECTIVE HABITS ARE MAKING HER UNHAPPY, NOT LOOKING AFTER HER."

    There we go. =]

  • 10 years ago

    It's not that he doesnt trust you. He's suspicious of you and is only doing that in a hopeless attempt to protect you.

    Source(s): My parents still treat me like a six year old when i'm 13...
  • 10 years ago

    Hes you're dad................im sorry to break this to you but THIS will never stop!.....u'll always be his little baby..........i dont think its a trust issue....hes just a "little" overprotective...like all dads!

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    sounds normal

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