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You guys (mostly your bf) can be upfront with people (his mother) about your relationship. Let her know that you'd much rather be open and honest about your relationship but if she's not comfortable with it, you can do her the favor and hide it from her but the relationship will remain despite her opinion. Also let her know that she'll only be pushing the both of you away and this is something neither of you want.

Hey Sarah, this kinda thing is always hard and it hurts...a lot. I don't know enough about the situation to give you advice. What is it exactly that is keeping you apart? Is it just that his mom doesn't like you so she doesn't want you to be his girlfriend? What did you do to gain that kind of "respect"? Is there a way that you could play her game and get her to like you? Or is it that she doesn't want her son to have a girlfriend, period? I know a little how you feel I think because I was in a situation where we had a great relationship, he was so awesome and we were so into each other but my parents were put off by some of the things he did. No matter what good stuff I told them about him they wouldnt hear of the relationship. It took awhile but I got over him, though I thought it was so dumb cuz we both liked each other. But, sometimes parents know best. I don't know enough about your situation to say who is right here. I think that you guys should get off the phone and put the issue on hold for tonight. If you really loved him like you say you do you would let him go to sleep. He's not going anywhere without you telling him to. You guys can work out somethin tomorrow. That's first of all. Second of all, if you really think that you guys belong together then you should try to change the image that his mom has of you. I know a story of someone who got dumped for a certain reason but she was so heartsick over him and believed that they belonged together that she figured out what it was that turned him off and changed herself. I don't know what the details are her but if you're interested you can update your question and I can see if I can be of further assistance. Don't know if this helped at all, but I hope it did! Good luck you too!

The way you deal with all problems in life, is identify the problem, your options and chose the most reasonable solution. The way I see it you have 3 options.

Option 1: You guys can be sneaky and don't tell her or anyone that you two are together and then deal with it when they (his mom) find out that you are together.

Option 2: You guys (mostly your bf) can be upfront with people (his mother) about your relationship. Let her know that you'd much rather be open and honest about your relationship but if she's not comfortable with it, you can do her the favor and hide it from her but the relationship will remain despite her opinion. Also let her know that she'll only be pushing the both of you away and this is something neither of you want.

No yelling, crying or complaining be as mature as you possibly can no matter how she reacts.

Option 3: Do as his mommy says and break up.

So what's mom's problem anyway? Why is she in her son's business? Is yours a bi-racial relationship and she doesn't like it? Different religions? Wild girl and nerdy boy thing? lol

She may be worried about you getting pregnant, sidetracking him from his future, overwhelmed by her problems and with a relationship she may have to deal with her son's emotional ups and downs.

Do you see what I'm writing here? It may not and probably not has anything to do with you and she's handling the situation wrong.

Maybe if you two move slow and handle all parts of your relationship ( birth control,birth control so easy to get) respecting each other blah blah blah, she may calm down.

But really, unless you two get high, ride a motorcycle down the aisle in church while doing robberies every other saturday, tell your boyfriend a relationship is "2" people only.

How old are you both? That may have something to do with it but if that's not it then I think the first thing your boyfriend should try and do is find out why his mum is so against you both dating. There must be an issue for why she's so against it.

Don't make promises you cannot keep. Swearing that you will never hurt him is a promise you cannot guarantee. Things happen, people change and emotions falter unfortunately.

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Go to his house for dinner and show her that your the type of girl that her son should be with. Other than that there is not much you can do...I mean it is going to have to be him standing up to his mom and telling her he's gonna be with you whether she likes it or not and that it would be nice for her to accept it.

be "friends" but don't tell anyone it's not just that you can be dairing without a lable so you tell noooo one but you tell people you like eachother so like dating without telling anyone and just go to the movies butvtell your parents your with other friends if they won't let you hang out they will sence something and finally realize you love eachother enough to go through all that and wait till you can date

This might sound a little harsh but make his mom feel bad and have him start yelling at her and tell her he hates her and stuff..

LOL you're probably only 12. just give it time. date, but don't be official.