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What should i do about this?
I talked to a guy on a social networking game for a yr . Just recently , however, he told me things that i would never agree with in a million years, no woman would! I thought he was a really nice man and i really cared for him. I guess i was blinded by the light so to speak. I however did not know he was married . I am now feeling abused , mentally and physically and emotionally. I do not speak to him any longer. I am furious however at what he told me he likes, it is beyond good morality . I really would like his wife to know who she is married to and what he is telling people on the net. Yes! i know that men lie on the net for whatever reason. So should i leave her a message on her face book account and let her know what he is saying to women or let it just die and let it be a memory?
3 Answers
- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
I think you should forward her all the dirty and erotic chats you had, let her take it from there.
- daveLv 710 years ago
Ok, some perspective:
He led you on. He lied to you. He made you think he was something that he wasn't. He made an improper suggestion that is likely to be a fantasy, something that he's unlikely to be telling anyone else in real life. In fact, if it wasn't for the internet, that thought would probably stay in his head forever and no one would ever know about it.
Sure, you're really hurt and that makes perfect sense. However, unless he's broken the law, then there's really no reason to tell anyone else.
If you tell his wife then you'll be hurting her (who doubtless has done nothing wrong) and maybe they have kids too who will also end up being hurt. All because he's been an idiot and typed a few stupid things on his keyboard. It's not really fair that a load of people should end up hurt unnecessarily because he was dumb, especially if it's in your power to stop it.
So, let this one go but learn from it. Next time, if you like someone then ask more questions about them, talk on the phone etc.