What's with this guy?

Haha, god, classic case of a typical male. Boys don't know WHAT they want honey. If you can't figure out what he wants it's cause he can't figure it out. What you need to do is figure out what you want. Do you really like him? Or not? Because if you are I suggest you just confront him about it. That's alot of what the problem with relationships/lack thereof are, that is, no communication.

Talk to him. Ask him, straight up, (I know it's hard, but you've got to be confident and put yourself out there) "I've been getting vibes from you and everyone says you like me and I know I like you, so I just want to know, what's the deal? If it's nothing, I don't want to ruin our friendship, yadda, yadda." You'll know what to say.

And then go from him, the only person that can tell you what's going on is HIM. So talk to him! Find out.

I wish I could help you more, but, I can't.

Best of luck.

I would say that you need to decide if the guy is worth the time understanding... If he is ignore him and let him come to you. For some reason the more of a challenge women are the more men like us and the easier they are to figure out. If we are their friends then they will be our friends and eventually that line may be crossed, most likely all the time. Sometimes that is a good thing and that will work out awesome.

But if you want to find out if he is really into you, don't text him back right away, act busy and then get back to him eventually and see what he wants to do. Lots of guys buy me drinks it doesn't mean they want to date me.Friends do not always know either, go with your gut. And texting is just that texting.

If you want to find out if he cares about you and wants to see you, a guy that cares will do more then buy you drinks,he will be concerned and ask you out.

Guys get like that sometimes, I've never quite figured it out. Test him, back off and ignore him for a while, that usually brings them coming around again. Men like the chase, when they don't have to try so hard they lose interest, so stupid, I know. Honestly, if he is sending you mixed signals, you also could be upfront about it and call him and ask him, don't waste your time, there could be a guy out there who likes you and lets you know that he does and you'll never question it. Good luck.

He sounds like a friend who wants something more. Not a relationship, not just friends, but somewhere in between.