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Parents won't give me and my gf any space?
We've been together for almost a year now and have been very respectful of their desires for our relationship, lately though it has been stressing me out so badly that we can't get a moment away without having to be chaperoned by parents or by one of my gf's younger siblings. For example I had a big date planned for when I got back from a 2 week long vacation but her parents squashed the plans because we'd be going alone. Its resulted in many an argument between my girl and I and has become rather distressing to myself. It has come to a head now that we've had to change some major vacation plans as a result of this. What can I do? All I want is to be able to be independent from the constant oversight and have proven myself responsible for that. Any thoughts?
6 Answers
- ?Lv 44 years ago
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- 10 years ago
Take this from someone who's probably younger than you, they mean well. I can't tell you how many nice boys (and girls, for that matter) get into trouble when they're alone, even if they don't mean to.
However, if it's to the point where they won't even let the two of you go to a public place like the mall, they're probably thinking you're lying when you tell them where you're going. Meaning that you need to get them to trust you more. Talking to her parents (as in a normal conversation) might help.
- ?Lv 610 years ago
Well taken by the way you write, you do not sound young so I will squash that... but maybe you can sneak out and meet say your going out with a guy friend (have him back you up) and she says she is going out with a girl friend (same thing, they cover for the both of you) and then meet and have a date alone!
- 10 years ago
Why not calmly and respectfully discuss this with your parents? It builds trust instead of making you feel guilty if you sneak out. And if you get caught, there is NO way your parents will leave you alone. I think if they are the type of parents that can handle a mature request, you'll be home free.
Good luck!
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- Anonymous10 years ago
My first thought was to sneak out one night and meet up somewhere. If you're old enough to drive you could say "I'm gonna hangout with my friends for a while". Then, go pick up your girlfriend and hangout with her
