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Im screwed...........................What would you do?

Ok, so my bf went to Cali for vacation. And we promised eachother wed stay together, hes been gone for almost two months and hes coming back on the 6th.. theres just one problem. While he was gone me ad my ex started talking, and he is saying he wants to be serious and get married and all this stuff that is having me fall for him again. Idk what to do, hes taking me out to lunch tomorow and idk what to say or anything, i really really liked my bf before he left, and now i really really really am starting to like my ex again, and fyi we didnt break up over anything stupid, it was me and i didnt have time for him, What should I do?

Update:

It sucks because my bf has been well, really angry and stuff towards me, like he flips out on me for no reasin and just the thought that if he found out i went to lunch with my ex is scary what he would do, but i still love him. UGHhhh

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  • :-p
    Lv 5
    10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    make a pro's and cons list. Don't think about your feelings right now, because right now you're only liking the ex because you haven't seen your boyfriend in 2 months and he's far away right now. True love waits, if you can't wait for him to be back then you obviously don't love him like that. Just dump the boyfriend in Cali.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Most likely it sounds like he just wants what he can't have. It's typical for someone of the opposite gender to try to take advantage of someone already in a relationship. People have no values or morals these days so as long as he gets some he will be happy. All he has to do is talk his sweet talk to charm you and bam... look what is happening.

    Obviously you broke up for a reason. And obviously you are with your current boyfriend for a reason. Just don't fall for that crap. Guys are skeezy and you'll only end up with nobody in the end.

    Source(s): Saw it happen too many times.
  • ?
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    First you got to see who is the better person. You cant just switch back and forth between guys. I would go with your ex and see how you feel about him but you MUST pick one and leave the other instead of trying to go back and forth with your feelings.

  • 10 years ago

    I would wait for your bf to come back and hang out with him soem and your ex some and then figure out your feelings form there

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  • 10 years ago

    the main reason u could be falling for ur ex again is that he is there to give u attention while ur current boyfriend is not just be faithful and see how u feel about ur boyfriend when he gets home

  • 10 years ago

    Talk to your boyfriend and if he is mad about it then just go back to your ex if u like him! Good Luck

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    you have a bf it would be messed up if u cheated on him or left him for your ex

  • 10 years ago

    figure out which one means more to you.. sorry i can't help more.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    if the boy's treating you wrong, LEAVE HIM.

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