Someone PRETTY PLEASE help me! Its an emergency please help me.?

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Soo I met this guy a program. I knew from the first time I seen him I really wanted him. Like sort of I really like him (I know i sound like a whore). But I started talking to him and we became "friends" So i was listening to my ipod and over heard this girl say omg you and your girl friend have been going out for 2 years? You should get married. But he was like Naw Chill. So I let it go. And I tried not to like him cause he had a girl but I couldnt help it. So because i have a smart mouth I rubbed off on him the wrong way and he started like diss me alot. YET i still liked him. So we have a party and everyones dancing but out of no where they stopped and he just started dancing with me out of no where but he had to leave so we stopped. Then I go on myspace (i know who still uses myspace lol) and he messaged me his number and said the dance was fun we should do it again. After that we started talking daily for hours. But I think he has a girl so I didnt flirt alot. But he was like ccrazyy. He would call me wifey and stuff. And yesturday he said he loves me (but we just started talking.) And I didnt say it back and we argued. Then at the end I told him he has my heart. And he was yeah but its limited. and i go yeah. So he was like I want all your love. But the thing is I think he has girl friend and im affraid to ask. And Idkk what to do cause I like him alot just dont wanna get hurt. And I dont wanna be a homewrecker. I would rather her have him than me but idk how to stop something i like so much.

Update:

BTW IM NOT THINKING ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH THIS GUY. SOME PEOPLE AUTOMATICALLY THINK THAT BECAUSE IM 15 BUT NO. I WOULDNT/ COULDNT DO THAT

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Wow... seriously, THANK YOU for being a decent girl who gives a **** about another girls feelings when it comes to a boy they want.  That's very kind of youc really.  You sound like a sweet, considerate girl, not a whore at all.  

I would say you just ask him.  Say something like, "Well, before we go any farther in this, I just want to know that you're totally committed.  I don't know much about your personal life and I just want to make sure."

Something like that.  You can word it like you want, (I'm not very good at wording things like that, sorry) but seriously.  You need to make sure.

Be strong, sweetie.(:

mjbrightergem33 · Answer

i don not know how old u are and it makes a big difference,, you sound no older than 17 but do u really think  by having sex with a young man it will make him love u?, statistics show premarital sex makes a marriage less likely to succeed
  I  have learned being afraid to ask  questions makes for big trouble in  relationship for their  will be a huge lack of trust and I telling u from experience it sooo hard to get past this later on.
  It takes honest Communication between a  man and a woman  an it has to be honest no lies for once u have lied it so hard to know what is and what is not the truth. you should be able to expect if u ask a direct question or  him  you give and get back a direct answer not over looking anything tha twas asked .. If someone takes the time to ask a question to u  it is important  and the courteous thing to do is answer it directly  .

Anonymous · Answer

Such an emergency; while people in Norway are picking up after the bomb attacks, Somalians are suffering with extreme poverty as well as many other torn countries; the United States and Greece are dealing with possibly catastrophic debts and all the other problems of the world-your emergency is about a guy.
Well, hell, let's forget about all those and concentrate on this! Those are all totally mundane in relative to your problem.

Anonymous · Answer

Finally.some won who cares about another persons feelings when they have a problem. Maybe you should stay  just friends with this dude. Or move on. He's already taken.you' ll find some won else you Like.I'm sure he likes you back. Though.just wait before you de die to be just friends. Good luck,girl!

Anonymous · Answer

Wow I think I just lost some IQ points. I could've said all that in much fewer words. Anyway, if he has a girlfriend then you need to move on to someone else. Even if he doesn't, he doesn't sound like someone worth pursuing.

Megan A · Answer

oh well idk what i would do but if i was u i would just kinda forget or ask but i have kinda the same prob but not that bad its like a minni thing so try to make it like that but idk

Kristina Dominguez · Answer

Just ask!!:)
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