Super flirty guy, but he's got two kids and a soon to be wife!?

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Hey, I'm 16 and this guy I work with is like 21/22. Ive known him like 3 years, but only started working with him recently.. HES SOOOOOO FLIRTY! and he's gorgeous! He'll say I'm pretty & I smell really good and make rude comments like 'I really need a w*nk but I can't be bothered.. Fancy helping me out?;)' and I know he's only messing about and joking, but I wanna f*ck his brains out so bad!! God, I crave him! And last weekend, we were both massively drunk and we got off with each other & played about, you know ;-) but it made it kinda awkward at work for the first few hours, the next time I saw him.. Is it worth trying it on again but going furthur next week? Or should I leave it? I just want to f*ck him like crazy! Once I have, that's it, not again and no one will find out.. Cause he was pushing me up against a wall last weekend saying 'I wanna f*ck you!' and all that, but his girlfriend was downstairs.. And she treats him horribly! She's cheated on him twice.. I don't know what to dooo.. :-( help? :-D xxx

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It sounds so fun what you have there! And oh my gosh, if you're okay with it then I don't see why not! But what ever you do, do not take this guy seriously, hes a player and he wants to mess with your head. just enjoy and have fun ;) side note, you said his gf treats him horribly and cheated on him twice that's maybe what caused the action in him and his flirty side to rise, he feels that if his girl freind is not taking the relationship seriously so why should he be the one to put in any effort, at all.

Mary · Answer

What you don't want to do is be a homewrecker. You need to stay away from him. No matter how flirty he is and no matter how much you just wanna bang his effing brains out. You still need to stay far away from him. You can be friends but he's got two kids and a soon to be wife as you said. Even if she cheated on him, that's his problem not yours. If he wants to break up with her then he will. But right now he's still with her. How do you know if he won't turn his back on you and sneak with another girl if you two ever got together in a relationship. So spare the girl's feelings and let it go. You need to forget about him. Just watch some porn. Good luck!

? · Answer

no stay out of it, it will just further complicate things and who is too say he will accept it only being a one nigther, it doesnt matter his gf is not treating him well as long as he chooses too be in a relationship with her then he is off the market, and by the sound of it he isnt the best catch himself either so they may fit well together

she cheated on him and treated him poorly you say, sounds too me he may just as well cheated equally much on her by his behavior, you got no idea which issues he may have sleeping around, walk away from it before you get pulled into a drama you will regret later

Anonymous · Answer

well, i dont think ur in love the guy, it sounds more like u like for his body. nd ask urself if u want to have sex with him, or do you actually have feeelings for him. honestly its worthless wrecking a mans relationship because u want to have sex with the guy. think it throuugh and dont do anything in a rush, or if you make a mistake u could regret it later 
XOXOXX

cool cool · Answer

you shouldn't even think about doing something like that, especially if they're involved with someone else, but hey. you're choice.

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