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Ladies, what do girls EVER do for guys?
I've experienced many things in the past, and I've come to conclude that basically guys have to do everything everytime everywhere and girls expect them to as well.
Guys have to do all this:
1. Buy her a drink or it's "rude" if he doesn't. Some girls even try to justify it saying "it's the gentleman thing to do." So..what's the "lady thing to do?"
2. Girls expect guys to pay for absolutely everything. Some girls say they dont believe that but i've never seen a girl pay for anything of her own once. Some girls even expect guys to pay for her nail bills and stuff.
3. Guys always have to be chivalrous, opening car doors, doors, etc. I don't mind this too much, but still, it's annoying that girls feel like they're allowed to just snap their fingers and a guy jumps right to it cuz if he doesn't, he's fuked.
4. Girls always say "It's 2011, girls can do this and that" how about "It's 2011, girls can pay for the check too." Girls like to brag about how they're independent and sh!t, so why not show it? Women have jobs too for christ sake.
5. He is not allowed to get drunk because she needs someone to walk home with. So she KNOWS she'll have fun, while he has to be mindful. Ya that's fair. Girls talk about guys having to respect girls all the time, well i dont feel respected when im just your free cab ride home.
6. Nor do i feel respected when im your personal atm.
7. Girls expect guys to be there for them emotionally all the time. That's her natural need. A guy's natural need is more physical. But she doesn't have to do it at all ever if she didn't want to. Plus, a guy has to work for his needs. Where all a girl has to do is cry her eyes out, and if he doesn't comfort her, he's a jerk.
8. Guys have feelings too and need some emotional support, but girls rarely give taht. They just say man up and deal with it.
9. Girls wont go out with a poor guy.
10. Guys would go out with a poor girl. Hm i guess we're not attracted to money as much.
11. Guys are not allowed to dance with his female friends at a club cuz the gf will get jealous.
12. Girls say they can dance with their guy friends and justify it saying "You should really take it as a compliment, that we would never cheat on you and we feel secure enough in the relationship with you" WHAT??? how the hell does that make any sense at all?
13. WHenever there's a split decision on what to do for the day, the girl expects the guy to do what she wants ALL THE TIME. And they try to justify it saying it's the gentleman thing to do what the girl wants to do.
So what do girls really ever do for guys? I mean, sex is only on when it's her initiation, she doesnt give emotional support, she makes him do so many things for her because if he doesn't, he's rude and not a gentleman. And instead of battling me on this, why dont you try answering the question?
oh and girls try justifying everything saying "it's just the way it is."
No, it's not the way it is, it's 2011 like you say all the time, girls can do this and that, so tell me why girls can do whatever the hell they want when they never do anything that's nice for guys
1. no you dont make any sandwiches, you think that's 'sexist' so you dont have to do it
2. Hah that's if he even gets her in bed, or if she's willing to do anything he wants at all.
i sound cheap? So when a girl doesnt want to pay her half of the bill, that's not cheap? pfft
There are girls out there who refuse to cook and clean you know
12 Answers
- ?Lv 510 years ago
Maybe your dating the wrong girl or have you thought about that?. Sure a girl can pay and treat the guy if she's that type of girl. Nothing wrong with a fellow acting like a gentleman. She should behave like a lady if she wants a gentleman. Not every girl is into the bar scene as you may think or is into drinking and getting drunk. So chances are you won't meet her in a bar because she won't like drunks. You usually will attract what you are because birds of a feather will flock together.
I would agree with you jealousy is not a good thing but both sides can have it. Some men can be truly possessive so it's not always the girl who acts like that. You say girls don't give guys emotional support? How do you know that for certain? I guess you haven't been around women who have been supportive with their guy friends or boyfriends. You have a very narrow view of people or you haven't met people who are like that. Growing up I have been very lucky to have had some supportive male friends and been there for them as well too.
- 10 years ago
Ok let me tell ya all girls are different. some can be annoying like that. But I hate how some girls expect guys to take care of them like that. Yes everyone always says it's the gentlemen thing to do to pay for a girls drink or whatever but I look over the situation and say "why do you pay for my whole meal?" that's kinda f*cked up..... And I would go out with a poor guy any day as long as he's nice and takes me for who I am. Some guys I know only go out with the pretty girls and don't give a sh*t about girls like me, people say I am pretty but Im not a social butterfly so they never pay any attention to me. I dont give a crap if a guy dances with his girl friends. It makes ne happy to see him having fun. Yeah some girls expect a guy to be there for emotional times but I like to keep that for myself, it's not other peoples job to keep me happy. And I always try to cheer people up when their at an emotional state. But my point is not every girl does that kinda stuff. It takes a while to find a girl who gets it. Ok THAT'S ALL I GOTTA SAY!
Source(s): Me and my mind - 10 years ago
Because guys except girls to cook and clean, and then have sex with them. If you really cared about any girl, you wouldnt have a problem with doing any of these things. Some girls dont care if their boyfriends open the doors, or pay the bills or dance with their friends, or get drunk. Ur only thinking about some girl that expected you to do all this **** for her
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- 10 years ago
What do I do for my husband?
I cook his meals, I keep the house clean, I handle our finances (and no, I don't buy a bunch of useless crap), I fill out most of the paperwork (example: insurance forms), I give him massages when he comes home from duty (he's in the military), I do his laundry, I iron his uniforms, I give him a shoulder to cry on (if he ever needs to), I spend my free time with him, I cut his hair, I find new ways to keep our sex exciting and passionate, etc.
And no, he's not lazy. He cooks for me when he can, he helps me keep the house clean, he gives me massages (and cuddles with me on our movie nights), he supports me in everything that I do, he takes me out to places, he's an AMAZING lover, etc.
Are there girls out there who won't do any of this? Of course. I know several. But there are also women out there like me who do plenty for our boyfriends/fiances/husbands.
- ?Lv 710 years ago
1. every girl doesn't go to bars and clubs, it's just what those types of girls expect I guess. But every girl isn't the same
2. My man generally pays, but if he needs extra, I'll happily give it to him. I don't mind at all
3. I don't care if my man opens the door for me, yes, it's nice, but I don't expect it
4. yes, we have jobs too. some girls are just after money
5. yes, some girls are jerks too
6. every girl isn't after money
7. yes, true, women are more emotional. We can't help it! Just like guys can't help needing sex.
8. not true, for me anyway. I told my man not to fight crying in front of me. If he has to cry, just cry. Guys are human too.
9. we generally think about if the guy can support us- if we get serious
10. sigh.... we don't all love money! the personality matters more.
11. I don't go to clubs, and yes, I can understand why girls get jealous about that
12. yes, that doesn't make sense
13. nope. I ask my man what he wants to do, and I usually let him make the decision. Or we compromise.
- Anonymous10 years ago
girls will go out with a poor guy and it has just always been that way and it will continue to be that way. its not the lady thing to do all the things the guys are expected to do. no offense, but you sound cheap. honestly i dont know why this is and i know its not fair. it just is what it is
- Anonymous10 years ago
There always there for you......hell I never had a girlfriend before but I'd be glad to all those things without complaining...
- 10 years ago
Real talk brutha. but the simple facts are that women are delicate flowers in all aspects, emotionally, physically, and sometimes in brain power. We as men are here to take care of them and they take care of our children.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Guy have to do everything. But they get to call the shots in bed
